I am a wood element and my husband, baby, and mother are earth elements. We all live together. I was reading that Wodd destroys earth. What am I suppose to make of that? My husband and I plan on buying a house, and my mother is coming with us. According to the eight house, my mother is not compatible with us at all. I'm born on 11-09-72, my husband 02-05-59, and my mother 11-23-53. What am I suppose to make of that?