hi there, Many couples are at lost when either one of their ming-gua is different from their house?s. I wish to share the tips from a book which mention that a compromising gua (sector) can be reached for a couple of different MG (ming-gua). However, the exception is those couples having Li-gua and Ken-gua. Compromise means the chosen sector/direction is good for one and just an average for the other. Having digested the text, I am appending my version and the easiest DIY way as: Draw a 8-gua chart where the inner ring indicates the gua-names for EBG (early ba gua) and the outer ring the LBG (later ba gua). Assign each gua, both the EBG and LBG with an "E" or a "W" (where E= east group,TSM (Tong Si Ming. W=westand XSM (Xii Si Ming). Use the EBG for one?s MG (ming-gua) and the LBG for the compromising gua (sector/direction). E.g. If your house?s gua is #9,Li (sitting at the south) and your own MG is Kan #1 (north) while your wife?s Kun #2. The house suits you as both the house and u belong to the TSM. Your wife being XSM is not compatible with the house. From the chart, the compromising sector is west (Dui #7) or north (Kan #1). cheers p.s. to be verified by a professional f/s person like Robert or Cecil
