Hi. I'm a man and not in a relationship. To be honest, they dont come by very often or last very long. I'd like to see what feng shui can do to help me fix this. My home faces east, and my bedroom is the Southwest corner, the romance corner (must be some sort of sick joke). My furniture is wooden, and my room colors are blue and green mixes. My element is Water. I have been lighting pairs of candles every night, btw do these have to be the same color? I sleep with my head pointing east or southeast to encourage yang energies. I also attach a Jade double hope to the left side of my belt and a jade bagua on the right side of my belt. I figured double hope on left to attract yin, and bagua on right to encourage yang. There also may be a problem having to do with the year i was born. 1983, suggesting that i am Yin, a nonmanly quality and undesirable since i dont really enjoy overly controlling yang women. I really dont know what else i could do, but i have only read a few books on feng shui. Please help.