I do not think of myself as a weak person, however, I have learned that I am a weak Fire. What exactly does this mean? Does it mean that I should avoid certain colors/elements/people or else they will weaken me? For example, should I never wear my unfavorable colors? It seems silly to me. Also - how to avoid unfavorable elements/people when you usually don't know this type of information about people. I also found out the my fiance is a strong Earth and from the Feng Shui perspective we are not very compatible, so this is disheartening. Should couples that are not compatible focus on surrounding themselves at all times with favorable colors and elements? Thank you.