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Thank you so much for your advice. I have just one more question. It is about keeping the ashes of my husband's father. I researched this subject in your forum and you said the ashes are usually "neutral". My father-in-law died of a tragic accident happened in the snow mountain nearly 20 years ago, due to the lack of clear signage--severe neglect by the government. After his death, his sons went into a deep depression and my brother-in-law is still quite depressed. Right before we got married, we got hit by the huge government bus which totaled our car. In this case, do you think it's still OK to keep his ashes? We are also thinking about spreading his ashes on the mountain he loved. Any comment will be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for the generosity of your time in reading this and writing comments.

Some weeks ago, I started to make some minor defensive Feng Shui changes. Then shortly after I had a fall from a desk and two weeks after my husband had a severe gallbladder attack. Later, I realized that the floor lamp that I moved was in the South-West corner (5 Yellows). There is an altar within this South-West direction and all I did was to move the floor lamp from one side (by the window) of altar to the other side (corner), thinking that it would be better to have a light at the corner. Do you have any idea if such events could take place by activating the 5 yellows? Or possibly some spirits rebelling against positive changes we are making? There always has been a suspicion that this apartment might have some harmful spirits and we also noticed that the light of the altar got SWITCHED OFF by itself after the Feng Shui changes (not by the connection problem, somebody other than us switched it off). If this was caused by 5 yellows, is there anything I should do? We cannot move the altar, and we always have to light candles. But we have some bells on the altar. If you have any advice, I will greatly appreciate it. Thank you in advance.