Binding Elements

[myfs_128013]

Greetings to the Masters,

I am a Strong Yin Metal Tiger (wood), mywife is a Strong Yang Metal Snake (fire), and our child is a girl Strong Yin Wood Ram (earth). Our1 storeyhouse was built last 2003, it faces NW but we have our main door facing NE at close proximity to our neighbor's perimeter wall (about 4 meters).

What can we use or implement in our home to harmonize our relationship, enhance wealth and health using the binding element of Water.

The color of our walls is basically all white and the ceilings and floor,too. Our Master's Bedroom is at the S, with other rooms at the W and N area.

We have a koi pond at the backyard, located at the S area of the 14m x 30m narrow lot.

Thank you in advance and hope i could get a reply from you. Happy New Year to all.

[Cecil Lee]

1. There are specialised concepts meant for specific senarios.

2. For the home Feng Shui, besides the Shapes and Forms, Flying Star Feng Shui should be applied. There are many more concepts.

3. Why Flying Star Feng Shui? The clue, here is that like human beings each home also has it's own birth chart!

4. You and I were born in a specific date and time. Thus, under Ba Zi, we can determine our element. And for husband and wife, as you had mentioned there is what is known as a "binding element". In your case, you had mentioned that it is "water element".

5. As mentioned under para 3, all homes have their own birth chart and characteristics - based on which flying star sectors: Facing direction and sitting directions.

6. What you are trying to do is to simply say that because both of your binding element is Water, then your home should be e.g. say painted in blue etc... But again, you are not living in an isolated environment!

7. Your home has it's distinctive birthchart. And each sector has different characteristics. For example say the location that you wanted to paint blue of place a water feature has a bad #3 wood. (#3 relates to lawsuits, quarrels, conflicts. And since this is a wood element, having a water position or blue colour here is surely going to inflame this bad #3 wood.) etc...

8. The saying goes... "a little knowlege is a dangerous thing!". Thing about it! Avoid, the common mistake of applying "fast food feng shui". Reading something and then, doing 100 and 1 thing in the name sake of "Feng Shui".

[Cecil Lee]

In my opinion, although you are taking one step in the right direction, but there are still over 100 steps to go!