Help! No ideal house for me!

[myfs_138233]

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Pls help! I recently bought a house and was about to start renovation! It was then that I started to find out more about feng shui.. Alas, my fiance's bazi is exact opposite of mine. What's good for me is completely bad for him! I am v sadden... does it mean that there will be no ideal house for us? Of the two of us, I am the one who earn more, but I am prepared to choose a door facing (North) that is favourable to him (but not for me).. Based on your very comprehensive guide on the website, I did a short analysis and is attached of the eight locations.. The master bedroom and kitchen seems to suit me, which is good... but to him, the master bedroom is on his death line... I shiver at the mere thought of this! What shd we do? I am really desperate! In this case, based on what I drawn, the death line comes in from the NE side of my house, not directly through the main door (or should it be interpreted as coming in from door?) (I think it is not, but if it is, this would the worst-case situation!).. Any way to circumvent or overcome the problems? I told him we can only sleep separately L

Very alarm, sad, worried and depressed... Appreciate your advice very much, really.. Hope to hear from you soon?

Many thanks & best regards,

Cally

[Cecil Lee]

1. Honestly, it is simply ridiculous for a married couple to sleep separately!

2. Feng Shui or Earth Luck is but just 1/3 of the other luck!

3. For example, under the Chinese Holy Trinity of luck, there are three types of luck:-

3.1. Heaven Luck or (born with) = 33.3 percent
3.2. Feng Shui or Earth Luck (of home or office) = 33.3 percent
3.3. Human or Man Luck factors = 33.3 percent

4. What you are trying to do, here is trying to squeeze a square peg into a round hole. And totally discarding or throwing away 33.3 percent of Human or Man Luck factors.

5. Sometimes, theoritically, even if a home is not suitable to home owners, it does not mean the end of the world. Many people, also don't have much Heaven Luck. Thus, relationships are or is equally important! Thus, when you say to sleep in separate bedrooms, then, this will definitely affect your "Human or Man" luck factor!

6. Eight house analysis is usually meant more for those who have not purchased a home and try to "work this into" the home. Not the otherway around.

7. This concept can be applied to your master bedroom:-

http://wiki.geomancy.net/wiki/Master_Bedroom:_Which_side_must_I_sleep_on

8. Frankly, your over-concern is truly an OVER KILL!

9. Such thoughts often lead to both: AUTOSUGGESTION and SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY!

10. There are other higher weightage or key concepts that can easily transsend over just simply worring unnecessarily about the Eight house concept.

For example:-

http://wiki.geomancy.net/wiki/The_Concept_of_Maximizing_Marks

Human and Man luck makes a whopping 33.3 percent of the overall luck!

[Cecil Lee]

I hope, the relationship would NOT deteoriate until this:-

http://forum.geomancy.net/phpforum/article.php?bid=2&fid=29&mid=24466&new=

And it may get worse!

[myfs_138233]

Thank you for your prompt response... I understand your points... I felt like i am getting overly obsessed and fearful that I no longer look forward to renovating my new house... Just a question, do you do on-line house analysis with proposed remedies/cures? Am thinking of not doing full on-site audit lest the more i know, the more fearful i get... Thanks for your time!

Best regards..

Cally

[Cecil Lee]

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Cally C. wrote:
Thank you for your prompt response... I understand your points... I felt like i am getting overly obsessed and fearful that I no longer look forward to renovating my new house... Just a question, do you do on-line house analysis with proposed remedies/cures? Am thinking of not doing full on-site audit lest the more i know, the more fearful i get... Thanks for your time!

1. Frankly, you are not the only one in the same situation. As for those applying the Eight House, statistically 50-50 are either East or West Group. Thus, it is very common occurence! So no-worries

2. Yes, on-line analysis is available: email: support@geomancy.net