Why the binding element were not suggested

[sun888_99]

Dear cecil,
I read your response to the gentleman who was having marital problems. I was wondering how come you did not suggest the comparison pillar and binding elements to improve the situation in your response. I am sure there must be a reason for it. Can you please elaborate. Thanks.

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Anon,
Thanks for bring up this question. Mr Chetan is a new member to this forum.
It is never my intention to propose or publicise as far as possible solutions that involve `paid reports' available in this website. Also Pillars and Five Elements are `more' advanced subjects and is more `difficult' for a new user to digest.
It is also good to relook at a relationship not based on Feng Shui as most cases, it is usually communication such as `listening ear' etc..
In my opinion, I believe that Mr Chetan is new, as some users are aware, we have users who `faithfully' login everyday or had read almost all the forum messages. While there are new users. It is difficult to provide advise in varing degrees especially advise that is on Pillars of destiny or Five elements such as element bindings. As these are not generally focused directly onFeng Shui but destiny.
In my recent messages, I also mentioned that e.g. Flying Star can help but if one choose not to use it, can always rely on their feelings.
Hope you can understand that sometimes Robert and myself are in a difficult position.
We have always believed in trying our best to be as objective as possible and to make this forum as creditable as possible. At the same time we have tools available.
We always emphasise that we will always continue to provide, as honest a forum as we can and available tools are secondary.
Hope this helps to clarify our `diffcult' position. Imagine, if every other messages we recommend or insist everyone to do this or that, it is against our principles.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 11/3/99 3:16:56 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear cecil,
I read your response to the
gentleman who was having
marital problems. I was
wondering how come you did not
suggest the comparison pillar
and binding elements to
improve the situation in your
response. I am sure there must
be a reason for it. Can you
please elaborate. Thanks.