Is my bazi causing me to not have friends?

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Hi People, I am new to this forum, as u can see. And I have been scouring ard for help regarding my problem. I am19 years old this yr and since young, I do not have close friends. My friendships often result in failure (become enemies or strangers) after 2 years.
I feel lonely and is always alone.
I wish to know why. Is it bcos my past life karma or my bazi?
Will be happy if u can give me some advice on my situation. Thanks
On a side note, some have said that I am destined to be alone as I have lonely stars
My birthdarte are as follow:
13/July/1991
1400 Singapore Time
Thank and regards
Panta

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On 12/28/2010 7:23:11 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi People, I am new to this
forum, as u can see. And I
have been scouring ard for
help regarding my problem. I
am19 years old this yr and
since young, I do not have
close friends. My friendships
often result in failure
(become enemies or strangers)
after 2 years.I feel lonely
and is always alone.I wish to
know why. Is it bcos my past
life karma or my bazi?Will be
happy if u can give me some
advice on my situation.
ThanksOn a side note, some
have said that I am destined
to be alone as I have
lonely stars My birthdarte are
as follow:13/July/19911400
Singapore Time Thank and
regardsPanta
Hi Qu P,
I'm not an expert in Ba Zi etc but I couldn't help not responding to your post regarding your
present dilemma (or a perceived one). While I sympathise with your sense of loneliness, I believe
taking a bit of advise from this very old chinese adage might help you to see things from a different
perspective. "Our existence is based on the 5 principles - 1. Heaven Luck 2. Destiny 3. Fengshui
4. Karma ( present and past) 5. Effort."
I believe EFFORT is the most important as exerting or lack of it could change the outcome of
the other 4 principles! Therefore I wouldn't blame the lack of friends on bad Ba Zi or bad Karma.
Perhaps you could try this very useful tip my 13 yr old sontold me he usessince he was 10yrs old with great results! He sets himself a target of being the first one to say hello and extend his hand of friendship to the first 10 students he meets( but doesn't know) at the beginning of a school
year. Today he has a very large group of friends and incidentally the very close one are the ones
he acquired through his system!
So give it a go and good luck!