Husband & Wife with Different Groups

[myfs_149783]

Dear Masters:
I am from India. Ibelieve inFeng Shui.
My husband and I have been going through a lot turbulance in our marriage. He's hardworking; however, isn't earning enough to rven run a small family like just the two of us.He doesn't seem to be doing anything about it! I've.been trying hard to get a job and I too have been unsuccessful to this moment. I am going through a lot of stress because of his unloving, uncaring and insensitivebehavior toward me and this has been adversely affecting my health consistently.
Is this all becausewe belong to different kua numbers and groups?His date of birth is 10-April-1980 and mine is 5-Feb-1980.
I would appreciate your advice on this. Please help.
With much thanks,
Regards,
Smita

[Cecil Lee]

In my opinion; frankly; there are so many other information that needs to be "digested".
The Gua/ Kua number or East or West Group shows a "trend" but often; individual bazi is compared together and the ba zi chart is studied andlooked at closely.
Thus;basedpurely on different Gua(kua) numbers is too premature.

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On 4/30/2011 6:33:11 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Masters:I am from India.
Ibelieve inFeng
Shui.My husband and I have
been going through a lot
turbulance in our marriage.
He's hardworking; however,
isn't earning enough to rven
run a small family like just
the two of us.He doesn't
seem to be doing anything
about it! I've.been
trying hard to get a job and I
too have been unsuccessful to
this moment. I am going
through a lot of stress
because of his unloving,
uncaring and
insensitivebehavior
toward me and this has been
adversely affecting my health
consistently.Is this all
becausewe belong to
different kua numbers and
groups?His date of birth
is 10-April-1980 and mine is
5-Feb-1980. I would appreciate
your advice on this. Please
help.With much
thanks,Regards,Smita

[myfs_149783]

Dear Mr. Cecil Lee:
I was very glad to see your response. Thank you forit and theinformation shared.
Could you please advice what should I do or how should I proceed?
Your response is most awaited.
Once again thanking you,
Sincerely,
Smita

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On 4/30/2011 7:57:01 PM, Anonymous wrote:
In my opinion; frankly; there are so
many other information that needs to be
"digested".The Gua/ Kua number or East
or West Group shows a "trend" but often;
individual bazi is compared together and
the ba zi chart is studied
andlooked at
closely.Thus;basedpurely on
different Gua(kua) numbers is too
premature.
On 4/30/2011
6:33:11 PM, Smita Erady wrote:
Dear
Masters:I am from India.
Ibelieve inFeng
Shui.My husband and I have
been
going through a lot
turbulance in
our marriage.
He's hardworking;
however,
isn't earning enough to
rven
run a small family like just
the two of us.He doesn't
seem to be doing anything
about
it! I've.been
trying hard to
get a job and I
too have been
unsuccessful to
this moment. I am
going
through a lot of stress
because of his unloving,
uncaring and
insensitivebehavior
toward
me and this has been
adversely
affecting my health
consistently.Is
this all
becausewe belong to
different kua numbers and
groups?His date of birth
is 10-April-1980 and mine is
5-Feb-1980. I would appreciate
your advice on this. Please
help.With much
thanks,Regards,Smita

[Cecil Lee]

Frankly, in my opinion; these are some of the considerations:
1. There are/could/may be many variables related to your question.
2. First and foremost is also "culture". Although I believe India is trying to abolish the caste system; it is still widespread. Most likely this is not the issue, here.
3. Correct me if I am wrong; as I have heard / seen documentaries of how some Indian husbands / family (treat or even mistreat) their wifes or worse...
4. Thus; this is one major aspect that may / can / would affect the outcome.
5. Given that in the Indian culture; there are many Astrologers that "perform" the same tasks as Chinese Geomancers; if you want to go on this route; then what better than to approach such a person in your country. Vs asking for help in an International setting.
6. This is because; in an international setting; we really don't have a full picture or details. All the info are "blanks" in our arsenal of tools. As often we use many tools : to gain a larger and large picture of the entire situation: preparing the ba zi chart (the person); preparing the Flying Star chart + looking at the Shapes and forms (the home and surroundings).
7. Furthermore; such things are beyond this simple; Free General Advice forum.
8. Not sure about youravailability to "support" group(s).
9. For us Chinese; we have our parents; our grand parents; our relatives; our friends and even psychologists if necessary to look at it from another perspective. Furthermore; our culture may be different.It is rare for us Chinese man say to become violent to woman (excuse me... but this isonly from my vague understanding of Indian culture - again this is notabout every Indian male... some that weSOMETIMES read about the inequality of Indian females.)
10. Often us geomancers; when we do give advice; our clients do take us very seriously and even geomancers have to understand psychology and it's impact not to leave too serious a "scar" on to an already volitile situation.
11.In modern times; there are so many avenuesfor obtaining advice.
12. Again;in many instances; communication betweencouples is another source.

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On 5/2/2011 7:01:37 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Mr. Cecil Lee:I was very glad to
see your response. Thank you forit
and theinformation shared. Could
you please advice what should I do or
how should I proceed?Your response is
most awaited.Once again thanking
you,Sincerely,SmitaOn 4/30/2011 7:57:01
PM, Cecil Lee wrote:
In my opinion;
frankly; there are so
many other
information that needs to be
"digested".The Gua/ Kua number or
East
or West Group shows a "trend"
but often;
individual bazi is
compared together and
the ba zi
chart is studied
andlooked at
closely.Thus;basedpurely
on
different Gua(kua) numbers
is too
premature.On
4/30/2011
6:33:11 PM, Smita Erady
wrote:
Dear
Masters:I am from
India.
Ibelieve
inFeng
Shui.My husband and
I have
been
going through a lot
turbulance in
our marriage.
He's hardworking;
however,
isn't earning enough to
rven
run a small family like just
the two of us.He doesn't
seem to be doing anything
about
it! I've.been
trying hard to
get a job and I
too have been
unsuccessful to
this moment. I am
going
through a lot of stress
because of his unloving,
uncaring and
insensitivebehavior
toward
me and this has been
adversely
affecting my health
consistently.Is
this all
becausewe belong to
different kua numbers and
groups?His date of birth
is 10-April-1980 and mine is
5-Feb-1980. I would appreciate
your advice on this. Please
help.With much
thanks,Regards,Smita