Need your esteemed advice urgently

[myfs_151616]

Dear Master Cecil Lee
I am currently 8 months pregnant and have recently rented out my current house. Due to the circumstances, I would need to shift out to a new house in 2 weeks time.
I understand for pregnant woman, the bedframe should not be shifted or moved. Therefore I intend to get a new bedframe and take the existing mattress to the new house, and will leave the old bedframe at the old house. Is it appropriate that the old bedframe be left for the tenant to use, I will give instructions for the tenant to use the bedframe but not to dismantle/shift the old bedframe until my confinement period is over. Please can you kindly advise if this is appropriate? I am quite confused on how to handle the old bedframe.Thank you.
Best Regards.

[Cecil Lee]

1. In my opinion; there are varying degrees of approaching this situation.

2. The degree of approach has more to do with how liberal or how extreme one wants to approach this situation.

3. In my opinion, there are many situations where if you are not involved in the move, there were instances that existing bed frames and bed were moved to the new location. here, the only condition that you must not be present when they dismantle or fix it up. In addition avoid returning to the existing home / room to "discover" or view the bedroom; after it had been moved.

4. once fixed up and placed at the new location, avoid moving it again.

5. Based on what you mentioned, the approach you mentioned is more "detailed". There are some who still does this.

6. Thus the liberal or more detailed approach has been done before, in my opinion, is up to you and family to decide.

7. It boils down to you and your family's comfort level as there are no fixed templates to choose from.

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On 11/13/2011 12:32:14 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Master Cecil LeeI am
currently 8 months pregnant
and have recently rented out
my current house. Due to the
circumstances, I would need to
shift out to a new house in 2
weeks time.I understand for
pregnant woman, the bedframe
should not be shifted or
moved. Therefore I intend to
get a new bedframe and take
the existing mattress to the
new house, and will leave the
old bedframe at the old house.
Is it appropriate that the old
bedframe be left for the
tenant to use, I will give
instructions for the tenant to
use the bedframe but not to
dismantle/shift the old
bedframe until my confinement
period is over. Please can you
kindly advise if this is
appropriate? I am quite
confused on how to handle the
old bedframe.Thank you.Best
Regards.

[Cecil Lee]

1. Leaving old bed frame: has been done before

2. 2walls: really your call. If one applies Compass school; then it is a different story altogether as one can analyze which of the two is better and who sleeps; where.

Under the current situation; you may have to go with personal feel.

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On 11/13/2011 11:38:46 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Thank you Master Cecil LeeAs a
precaution and peace of mind, my husband
and I decided to get a new bedframe for
the new house and leave the old bedframe
at the old house. I will also not
participate in the moving.However, I
have 2 more questions:1) Is is alright
to leave the old bedframe for the tenant
to use?2) As the new house's Master
bedroom is small, there are only 2 walls
to put the new bedframe - directly under
the aircon or face the aircon. If not,
can we put the bedframe back against the
windows? Please kindly advise the best
way to place the bed.Thank you very
much.On 11/13/2011 10:19:19 AM, Cecil
Lee wrote: >1. In my opinion; there
are >varying degrees of approaching
this situation. > >2. The
degree of approach has >more to do
with how liberal or >how extreme one
wants to >approach this situation.
>3. In my opinion, there are
many situations where if you >are
not involved in the move, >there were
instances that >existing bed frames
and bed >were moved to the new
location. here, the only
condition that you must not be
present when they dismantle or
fix it up. In addition avoid
returning to the existing home >/
room to "discover" or view >the
bedroom; after it had been >moved.
>4. once fixed up and placed at
the new location, avoid moving
it again. >5. Based on what you
mentioned, the approach you
mentioned is more "detailed".
There are some who still does
this. >6. Thus the liberal or
more >detailed approach has been
done before, in my opinion, is
up to you and family to >decide.
7. It boils down to you and >your
family's comfort level as >there are
no fixed templates >to choose from.
On 11/13/2011 12:32:14 AM, Anonymous
wrote: >>Dear Master Cecil
LeeI am >>currently 8 months
pregnant >>and have recently
rented out >>my current house. Due
to the >>circumstances, I would
need to >>shift out to a new house
in 2 >>weeks time.I understand for
pregnant woman, the bedframe
should not be shifted or
moved. Therefore I intend to
get a new bedframe and take
the existing mattress to the
new house, and will leave the
old bedframe at the old house.
Is it appropriate that the old
bedframe be left for the
tenant to use, I will give
instructions for the tenant to
use the bedframe but not to
dismantle/shift the old
bedframe until my confinement
period is over. Please can you
kindly advise if this is
appropriate? I am quite
confused on how to handle the
old bedframe.Thank you.Best
Regards.

[myfs_151616]

Thank you Master Cecil Lee
As a precaution and peace of mind, my husband and I decided to get a new bedframe for the new house and leave the old bedframe at the old house. I will also not participate in the moving.
However, I have 2 more questions:
1) Is is alright to leave the old bedframe for the tenant to use?
2) As the new house's Master bedroom is small, there are only 2 walls to put the new bedframe - directly under the aircon or face the aircon. If not, can we put the bedframe back against the windows? Please kindly advise the best way to place the bed.
Thank you very much.

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On 11/13/2011 10:19:19 AM, Anonymous wrote:
1. In my opinion; there are
varying degrees of approaching
this situation.
2. The degree of approach has
more to do with how liberal or
how extreme one wants to
approach this situation.
3. In my opinion, there are
many situations where if you
are not involved in the move,
there were instances that
existing bed frames and bed
were moved to the new
location. here, the only
condition that you must not be
present when they dismantle or
fix it up. In addition avoid
returning to the existing home
/ room to "discover" or view
the bedroom; after it had been
moved.
4. once fixed up and placed at
the new location, avoid moving
it again.
5. Based on what you
mentioned, the approach you
mentioned is more "detailed".
There are some who still does
this.
6. Thus the liberal or more
detailed approach has been
done before, in my opinion, is
up to you and family to
decide.
7. It boils down to you and
your family's comfort level as
there are no fixed templates
to choose from.
On 11/13/2011 12:32:14 AM, Anonymous
wrote:
Dear Master Cecil LeeI am
currently 8 months pregnant
and have recently rented out
my current house. Due to the
circumstances, I would need to
shift out to a new house in 2
weeks time.I understand for
pregnant woman, the bedframe
should not be shifted or
moved. Therefore I intend to
get a new bedframe and take
the existing mattress to the
new house, and will leave the
old bedframe at the old house.
Is it appropriate that the old
bedframe be left for the
tenant to use, I will give
instructions for the tenant to
use the bedframe but not to
dismantle/shift the old
bedframe until my confinement
period is over. Please can you
kindly advise if this is
appropriate? I am quite
confused on how to handle the
old bedframe.Thank you.Best
Regards.