panda_love Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Hello Master,I know I should not do house renovation during pregnancy. I have situation here.I am 13 weeks pregnant, our house is quite small, the spare 2 small bedrooms used for store rooms, ironing room, we do not have garage, just a house on the land, 3 bedroom, small living area, open kitchen with dining area, small laundry, only one person can fit in the laundry. One of the spare room next to our bedroom, will be nursery room.We are planning to build garage together shed (garage and shed combined) next to our house, so we can move most of the stuffs from 2 bedrooms and my husband's hobby stuff (at the moment sitting in the dining room) to the garage/shed once it built, so we can prepare the nursery room.So, if we don't build the garage, how we are going to put all the stuff into one room? Please advise and when should I build the garage? After the baby born, after baby 30 days old?After talking to my mum, she advise to build after delivery. I realise that I heard this story when I was younger, do not do renovation around the house when you are pregnant. Plus reading the forum about moving bed.Think back, I was nearly had miscarriage on week 6 and week 9, I cannot remember when I moved my bed slightly around 30-40 cm closer to the wall, when I was cleaning the bedroom. There was a little space free standing next to my bed side table, so i moved the bed side table closer to the wall, so the bed moved slightly too closer to the bed side table. Few days later I have 2nd bleeding, it have been very tough time for us, I am still very weak and sick until today, I try my best to go through this sickness, pain and discomfort everyday for baby sake.Please advise, thank you very much. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff Cecil Lee Posted May 25, 2012 Staff Share Posted May 25, 2012 Yes, it is true; that it is so much easy to say no to renovations.But if one cannot really help but have already done so; then, as you had mentioned, the most critical senario or rather; the most important belief is NOT TO move the master bed (anymore).Thus, since you are aware of this; then don't move the bed.In my opinion, the rest of the renovations could go on.Take care! Quote On 5/25/2012 3:05:31 PM, Anonymous wrote:Hello Master,I know I shouldnot do house renovation duringpregnancy. I have situationhere.I am 13 weeks pregnant,our house is quite small, thespare 2 small bedrooms usedfor store rooms, ironing room,we do not have garage, just ahouse on the land, 3 bedroom,small living area, openkitchen with dining area,small laundry, only one personcan fit in the laundry. One ofthe spare room next to ourbedroom, will be nurseryroom.We are planning to buildgarage together shed (garageand shed combined) next to ourhouse, so we can move most ofthe stuffs from 2 bedrooms andmy husband's hobby stuff (atthe moment sitting in thedining room) to thegarage/shed once it built, sowe can prepare the nurseryroom.So, if we don't build thegarage, how we are going toput all the stuff into oneroom? Please advise and whenshould I build the garage?After the baby born, afterbaby 30 days old?After talkingto my mum, she advise to buildafter delivery. I realise thatI heard this story when I wasyounger, do not do renovationaround the house when you arepregnant. Plus reading theforum about moving bed.Thinkback, I was nearly hadmiscarriage on week 6 and week9, I cannot remember when Imoved my bed slightly around30-40 cm closer to the wall,when I was cleaning thebedroom. There was a littlespace free standing next to mybed side table, so i moved thebed side table closer to thewall, so the bed movedslightly too closer to the bedside table. Few days later Ihave 2nd bleeding, it havebeen very tough time for us, Iam still very weak and sickuntil today, I try my best togo through this sickness, painand discomfort everyday forbaby sake.Please advise, thankyou very much. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
panda_love Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Thank you.I will not move my bed.Again about the house renovation, we have not started yet, I am still considering, I am not sure. The more we discuss we end up arguing, unhappy and stressing out.We are building garage and shed, changing the gutter, fence and tidying up front and back yard. All are outside the house.I do respect our chinese culture, again it is impossible if we do not build them, we cannot do move all the stuffs in the 2 spare rooms. I do not want anything bad happened to me.Also I heard we should disturb Tai Sui area, I think this renovation also go on to the South East area too, maybe a little.Please advice. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff Cecil Lee Posted May 28, 2012 Staff Share Posted May 28, 2012 Tai Sui or the term suggests: Grand Duke of JUPITER, is asociated with the planet Jupiter.Planet Jupiter being the largest planet in our galaxy, has the greatest mass. And the tendency is that it has an impact on our life.A few months ago, I had a longer term client. They recently moved into a semi-detached home. Prior to moving in, everything was fine. But, the husband had "itchy" fingers and decided to get digging and landscaping for his backyard, which is located at SE sector. Thereon, his whole family fall sick one after another.Thus, there are many instances or coincidences of road digging outside of the premises that can directly impact on those staying "nearby". In my opinion, if the renovations can be deferred, much the better unless there is no choice and have to proceed.As you had mentioned, you are already carrying a little one and yet, you and your family members should not be further burdened by frequent quarrels etc.... Take care! Quote On 5/28/2012 8:00:57 AM, Anonymous wrote:Thank you.I will notmove my bed.Again about thehouse renovation, we have notstarted yet, I am stillconsidering, I am not sure.The more we discuss we end uparguing, unhappy and stressingout.We are buildinggarage and shed, changing thegutter, fence and tidying upfront and back yard. All areoutside the house.I dorespect our chinese culture,again it is impossible if wedo not build them, we cannotdo move all the stuffs in the2 spare rooms. I do not wantanything bad happened tome.Also I heard we shoulddisturb Tai Sui area, I thinkthis renovation also go on tothe South East area too, maybea little.Please advice. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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