Like to improve relationship

[felicialin]

I just began learning about feng shui. I would like to improve the
relationship between our family members, especially between me and my
daughter. My daughter is 8 years old and she came to the age that she
has her own mind and argues with you all the time (or maybe it is me
that causing her not to listen). She is very good at school and at the
day care but somehow she becomes a different type of person at home.
Actually, the main thing I really want to change is my own attitude. I
like to be more patient and not get angry all the time. I get angry or
run out of patient with my daughter and husband very easy. I think there
must be something wrong in my house. Is there any Feng Shui cure?
Thanks!

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Felicia,
Frankly, under Feng Shui (Pillars of Destiny) there is no direct application to improve one's relationship.
This is because the closes concepts is based on Pillars of Destiny (Ba Zhi). However, Ba Zhi has an `escape clause' which says that it can map out one's Heaven map e.g. of a person and his/her luck.
However, our education, parents influence, our experiences can change our heaven's luck.
In my opinion, it is better to use other `educational' techniques or behaviour model e.g. child psychology etc...
For now, the closest I believe Pillars of Destiny can help is to do a Pillars of Comparison Chart to find the binding elements of two parties. This module is available to members of geomancy-online.com.
The module takes into account a detailed analysis of each individuals `clashes' etc.. to analyse against each other's Ba Zhi. Here, the entire pillar segment of a person is looked at and checked against a second person.
Other than the above, I cannot see anyone else making claims that relationships can be solved by other `Feng Shui' means.
Under `kindergarden' Feng Shui techniques some FS practitioners would advise you to place e.g. a bouqet of flowers or a picture of your family at your " relationship " corner e.g. at SW sector of say a room or living room.
I hope to act as a catalyst and also to point out the various techniques used.
At the same time, I like to share with everyone my frank opinion of what I personally think.
I leave it to each of us to make our own judgements.
More research would be needed to see how effective any other theories can be effectively used to help `solve' relationship problems.
The caution here is that some FS practitioners may use the guise of `Secret' this and Secret that to make it mysterious for everyone.
I do not believe in it and would like to come openly to share with each and everyone what we have found so far.
We will continue to work on enhancements to such models.
Otherwise, relationships are complex and it is better to use other means rather than I believe rely or trust too much on `Feng Shui' (Pillars).
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 12/30/99 1:02:40 AM, Anonymous wrote:
I just began learning about
feng shui. I would like to
improve the
relationship between our
family members, especially
between me and my
daughter. My daughter is 8
years old and she came to the
age that she
has her own mind and argues
with you all the time (or
maybe it is me
that causing her not to
listen). She is very good at
school and at the
day care but somehow she
becomes a different type of
person at home.
Actually, the main thing I
really want to change is my
own attitude. I
like to be more patient and
not get angry all the time. I
get angry or
run out of patient with my
daughter and husband very
easy. I think there
must be something wrong in my
house. Is there any Feng Shui
cure?
Thanks!