Little confuse on the balancing of Qi

[aangsc]

Dear Robert.
I am a little confuse of the balancing of chi. Please explain.
Question 1.
My wife is of "weak wood" and I am of "weak earth". Logically speaking she need to have "more water or wood" to strengthen and I need "more fire or earth" to strengthen my "weak earth". If I use Feng Shui to promote those shortage elements by increasing fire elements , it is going to weaken my wife "weak wood" further. If she increase wood that would weaken my already "weak earth". So how to strike a balance. Things would look more complex if I also consider my son who is considered "balanced" , will any increase or decrease of elements upset his "balanced" mixture of elements ?
Question 2.
I am of weak earth element and born under year of the wooden dragon (1964). Is there a contradicting elements in my dob or bai zi as wood destroy earth ?
Similarly, my wife is born in year of "fire goat" (1967) and she is of "weak wood", does her "fire" burn her weak wood ?
thks
Regards,
Ang

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Ang Chye,
The easiest method is to use the Pillars of Comparison (for members) to find the binding elements of both you and your wife.
Please take note the element and strength of the above report is used in conjunction with the analysis under Pillars of Destiny version 7. As the Pillars of Destiny 8 is based on two more `Pillars'. While most of the time may be the same, but may slightly vary in some occasions.
For those using Pillars of Destiny 8, later, we will have a module for this version. But again, the Pillars of Comparison for version 7 is already accurate.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil Lee

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On 1/19/00 9:16:36 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Robert.
I am a little confuse of the
balancing of chi. Please
explain.
Question 1.
My wife is of "weak wood" and
I am of "weak earth".
Logically speaking she need to
have "more water or wood" to
strengthen and I need "more
fire or earth" to strengthen
my "weak earth". If I use Feng
Shui to promote those shortage
elements by increasing fire
elements , it is going to
weaken my wife "weak wood"
further. If she increase wood
that would weaken my already
"weak earth". So how to strike
a balance. Things would look
more complex if I also
consider my son who is
considered "balanced" , will
any increase or decrease of
elements upset his "balanced"
mixture of elements ?
Question 2.
I am of weak earth element and
born under year of the wooden
dragon (1964). Is there a
contradicting elements in my
dob or bai zi as wood destroy
earth ?
Similarly, my wife is born in
year of "fire goat" (1967) and
she is of "weak wood", does
her "fire" burn her weak wood
?
thks
Regards,
Ang