Recommendation for missing elements, 3 clashes and kua 5 Female

[mavik14]

Please help. 

 

I have been wondering why my life is full of struggles. My kua is 5 and my missing elements are 3. I have 3 clashes. Can you advice me or give me any recommendations on how to balance my elements, avoid misfortunes and what's in store for me this 2025.

 

March 14, 1981 time of birth: 4:45am.

 

Thank you very much

[Robert Lee]

Frankly, without conducting a detailed and in-depth review of your Ba Zi, it’s impossible to determine for certain why you are experiencing struggles in your life. Likewise, it’s not possible to advise you on which elements you may need more or less of. 

1. I am assuming your date of birth is March 14, 1981 (Female), between 3:00 a.m. and 4:59 a.m. Since you didn’t explicitly specify your gender, I’m going by the "female" indicator provided in the topic details. Based on this assumption, the following is roughly your Ba Zi chart, derived from our free Ba Zi reports:-

URL: https://online.geomancy.net/public/code/html-fs-self-free.php?pay=0&tpl=chart_true_element&username=&gender=2&day=14&month=03&year=1981&hour=3

2. A quick glance at the chart suggests that your overall luck isn’t too bad. Out of the 12 periods of “Big Luck,” 9 are generally favorable to you. However, the percentages for most of these periods are on the lower side, ranging from 47% to 67%. Only four periods stand out at 83%, with two occurring in periods 2 and 3, and one in either period 11 or 12, which might be too late for you to fully enjoy or make the most of.

While I haven’t looked at your chart in detail, I noticed that almost all your "Big Luck" periods feature at least one major clash or harm which affects the entire 10-yearly period. Looking at the yearly luck forecast, there are also numerous clashes and harms present. While these are common in challenging or difficult years, I’m seeing them even in some average or favorable years. This can reduce the overall positive impact of those periods, as clashes, harms, punishments, or self-punishments usually represent challenges or obstacles to overcome.

This might help explain why, even during favorable "Big Luck" periods, you still face significant challenges. I believe this could be one of the key issues affecting your Ba Zi chart.

3. Of course, there could also be other factors at play, such as poor Feng Shui. Inauspicious Feng Shui in your home can negatively influence your luck and diminish any favorable periods.

4. A person’s overall luck is shaped by three types of luck:

4.1. Heaven Luck – The luck you are born with.
4.2. Earth Luck – The luck that comes from your home, office, and surrounding environment.
4.3. Human Luck – The luck shaped by your relationships and personal efforts.

Each contributes about 33.3% to your overall luck. If two types, such as Heaven Luck and Earth Luck, are unfavorable, they can account for 66.6% of your luck being impacted. This is why even if your Heaven Luck is good, bad Earth Luck can drastically reduce your overall fortune.

5. From our experience, most people facing challenges tend to have a combination of issues with both Heaven Luck and Earth Luck. Together, these two factors already account for the majority of your life’s circumstances.

6. The only advice I can offer is that, from a Heaven Luck perspective, you should try to balance yourself by focusing on strengthening your favorable elements. The closer you bring each of your five elements to the ideal 20%, the better your auspicious periods will become, and the fewer challenges you’ll face during inauspicious periods.

7. Based on your free report, you should aim to enhance your favorable elements—Fire, Water, and Wood—while reducing the influence of Metal and Earth. For more information about the five elements and their characteristics, you can refer to this link.

URL: https://talk.geomancy.net

8. Without a detailed analysis, it’s difficult to determine exactly which elements you need most, but generally, adding more Fire, Water, and Wood elements can be beneficial overall.

8.1. This involves paying attention to favorable elements when choosing colors for clothing, room decor, or personal objects. Incorporating Fire, Water, and Wood-colored items is generally helpful. However, I strongly recommend avoiding Fire element (red) colors in your bedroom decor, as they can potentially activate the inauspicious Illness or Misfortune stars. Without a thorough Feng Shui evaluation of your home, it’s hard to know which areas contain these stars. Using Fire element colors in these areas might trigger these negative influences, worsening the situation. Stick to safer options like Water and Wood colors for your room decor instead.

8.2. Next, consider whether your career and job scope align with your favorable elements. Since most people spend over eight hours at work, having a career that aligns with your strengths can significantly improve your success and well-being.

8.3. Finally, selecting a home that avoids unfavorable Death and Disaster directions and aligns with one of your favorable elements can further enhance your luck. Since you spend the majority of your time at home when not working, living in a suitable house can maximize your good fortune. However, a home is a significant financial investment, and it’s not always easy to make changes if you’re already settled. That said, if you plan to move in the future, choosing a residence that aligns with favorable Feng Shui principles can help boost your overall luck.

9. Additionally, Feng Shui plays a significant role in influencing your overall fortune. Your home accounts for about 33.3% of your overall luck. Combined with your Ba Zi (Heaven Luck), these two factors together make up 66.6% of your total luck, making it crucial to address both aspects.

10. All things considered, consulting a professional is likely the best solution to truly understand what factors are influencing your situation and how best to improve it. Without expert guidance, you may feel like you’re making changes in the dark, which can limit your progress or make it harder to achieve meaningful results.