Love & Romance

[Meecha]

Hello there!
I am new to Feng Shui and only know a few basics.
I would some help with my love life and would like some advice on how feng shui can help. There is someone that I was having a relationship with for a couple of weeks, but we had to stop seeing each other because he felt it was too soon after his previous relationship ended to see me. We keep in touch and when we are together it is apparent that there are still feelings there - but how can I help to turn this back into a strong relationship.
My bedroom is on the east side of the house. On the east wall is a large window. The bedroom door is on the west wall. The bed head is on the northern wall and faces a set of wardrobes. In my south west corner I have placed a pair of gold heart shaped earrings (someone told me this would help). In the north west is a dressing table with a mirror. In the south east is a TV which points towards the bed. The bedroom and bathroom door are opposite each other.
Have you any idea what changes I can make to sort this relationship out?
Thank you
Michelle

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Michelle,
1. In shallow terms, Feng Shui does not have a direct effect on love and romance.
2. Feng Shui is a holistic method, to increase one's luck and it is usually, has an indirect relationship with love and romance.
3. This is why we do see that Feng Shui based on the Corner Concept where even famous authors in my opinion, give the wrong impression that one can simply enhance one's South West or Romance corner and wonderful things will happen.
4. If one's `Feng Shui' is favourable or good, it will enhance one's luck and with it, indirectly, romance, love and "wealth" would arise. Wealth need not necessary mean money but raising a family, have children etc...
5. Frankly, for those who do not use Feng Shui in a holistic way, should instead, look for other alternatives: Participate in group dates etc... or other social activites.
6. Do not waste time, paying homage to e.g. the South West corner. There is nothing mystical about a corner. It is merely a corner and if one gets `caught' there, it can also mean `isolation'.
Why sent money doing up the corner. Rather, go `socialise' or if one has `low self esteem' e.g. fat or other percieved `defects', try to be more positive. I am not implying that one is fat or of this sort. Even slim people may have `low self esteem' etc.. or do not have the right opportuniy.
The above is a sensitive issue apologise.
7. Under `Professional Feng Shui', or Flying Star Theory, there is one of the eight sectors that has the romance sector.
But as Flying Star is not a static theory, it is difficult for an individual to keep track of where the romance star flys.
Under the Flying Star, there are also combinations of stars if they happen to be combined may provide interpretation of the `type of romance'.
8. Chinese astrology can be used to look at pairings. Usually, those based on year of birth is not that `accurate' as the one used by Pillars of Destiny which uses the Month, Year, Day and Time of birth or more inputs such as Year of Life and Conception to check on comparison. But, hey, wait a minute! We have not even gone to the point of finding a `prospective' partner... too premature to even talk about this...hmm..
9. Again, Para 7 is hard to follow for the layman and because of time factor, may not be useful.
Thus, no matter how, for an individual to `cause' an effect such as `romance' I am afraid, you may have to work hard, or pretty hard on it.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 7/2/00 4:03:00 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Hello there!
I am new to Feng Shui and only
know a few basics.
I would some help with my love
life and would like some
advice on how feng shui can
help. There is someone that I
was having a relationship with
for a couple of weeks, but we
had to stop seeing each other
because he felt it was too
soon after his previous
relationship ended to see me.
We keep in touch and when we
are together it is apparent
that there are still feelings
there - but how can I help to
turn this back into a strong
relationship.
My bedroom is on the east side
of the house. On the east
wall is a large window. The
bedroom door is on the west
wall. The bed head is on the
northern wall and faces a set
of wardrobes. In my south
west corner I have placed a
pair of gold heart shaped
earrings (someone told me this
would help). In the north west
is a dressing table with a
mirror. In the south east is
a TV which points towards the
bed. The bedroom and bathroom
door are opposite each other.
Have you any idea what changes
I can make to sort this
relationship out?
Thank you
Michelle