Tiger and Snake compatibility

[andreea@chello.se]

Hi!
I am a 26 year old female (sign:Tiger)who has been in a turbulent relationship with a man (sign:Snake) for two years now. I have understood that the compatibility between our signs is not the best. How can we overcome our differences and what can we do to improve stability?
Sincerely,
Tigress

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Andreea,
1. In my opinion, Chinese Astrology like its cousin ( Western Zodiac signs ) provides a description of the `traits' of a person belonging to a `sign'.
2. I feel that these signs or readings if one consciously or unconsciously read about what it is like for a person, sometimes, we may tend to `believe' that our `traits' or characterstics are like that described. This may lead to `auto suggestion' and some of us may `follow' such characteristics.
3. For example, if we read that a `Rat person' is:-
The Rat person is charming and ambitious. They are always busy and seldom able to relax fully. If not, they get bored easily or get bad tempered. They enjoy going to parties or having a quick round of chat.
Rats like to reach their goals by fair play. They are shrewd and not easy to be fooled.
Rats are lively, sociable and easy to get along. They are ambitious and like to see others put in an honest day's work. The Rat is a real family person and devoted to their loved ones and family. At home, does not reveal any of the mean personality traits.
Rats make good advisers to others but not to themselves and are generous to those they truly love even if not loved back.
Rats are also hardworking and thrifty and able to sense danger. Are honest and meticulous and intelligent.
On the negative side, Rats are practical but lack courage. Can be extravagant and greedy. If the Rat is not careful, the greedy side of the Rat could lead to all kinds of trouble.
Rats are secretive, self-indulging and self-seeking. They love to critize and gossip. Rats should avoid being over-work and being over-ambitious.
Avoid trusting another Rat or those born in the year of the Rabbit and Ram.
Reference: http://www.geomancy.net/love/crat.htm
4. We may `pick' up some of the above unconsciously some of the above traits.
5. What I believe is that if these traits are `true' or you found you and your partner to have such `traits'; you can try to understand your `traits' and your partner's traits and have a better understanding of each other's characteristics.
6. As a relationship is based on understanding, listening, `give and take' if one can understand each other better, I believe that this would lead to a better relationship.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 9/7/00 8:55:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi!
I am a 26 year old female
(sign:Tiger)who has been in a
turbulent relationship with a
man (sign:Snake) for two years
now. I have understood that
the compatibility between our
signs is not the best. How can
we overcome our differences
and what can we do to improve
stability?
Sincerely,
Tigress