ashrain Posted September 15, 2000 Share Posted September 15, 2000 Please help my fiance and myself. I have just done some introductory reading on FS and I know that everything we have is all wrong. Not only by looking around our apartment, but by looking around our lives. We are both very creative, intelligent people, but ever since we moved into this apartment our lives have been crumbling. Until recent ally we both worked full time and went to school full time, then suddenly (and unexpectantly) I was fired. This shocked me, my co-workers, and even my managers..two of whom quit on the spot. We are also both so stressed out that we are feeling physical effects of it. MOST importantly we are fighting and we both dread walking into our apartment because it is the only place that truley causes such anxiety between us. I have no idea what to do. Our apartment is one bedroom and very tiny. We are not allowed to make structural changes, paint, or even put up border. Worst of all, we have no room for our stuff (bikes etc.) and yet still, we have very little furniture and most of it was free and is falling apart. I have been trying to take whatever money that I can scrounge after bills,food,tuition to at least buy a few candles..but i just have a feeling that the misery needs a bigger solution. One might think that we are just young and stressed due to other factors..but i know that it is this place. Finally, we can't move until we can afford to buy a second car (we are currently walking distance to work and classes). Does anyone have any inexpensive advice they can give. I would really appreciate it. I am at my end with this situation. It is starting to feel really hopeless and both my fiance and I are slipping into a depression that is making it harder and harder cope with. I am hoping that feung shui and st. johns wart will come togeather and help bring us out of it.truley,ashley Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff Cecil Lee Posted September 17, 2000 Staff Share Posted September 17, 2000 Dear Ashley,Currently, does your single room apartment has any poison arrows aimed at it. Or who were previously occupying it. With little information, it is difficult to find out what is wrong.Warmest Regards,Cecil Quote On 9/15/00 3:08:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:Please help my fiance andmyself. I have just done someintroductory reading on FS andI know that everything we haveis all wrong. Not only bylooking around our apartment,but by looking around ourlives. We are both verycreative, intelligent people,but ever since we moved intothis apartment our lives havebeen crumbling. Until recentally we both worked full timeand went to school full time,then suddenly (andunexpectantly) I was fired.This shocked me, myco-workers, and even mymanagers..two of whom quit onthe spot. We are also both sostressed out that we arefeeling physical effects ofit. MOST importantly we arefighting and we both dreadwalking into our apartmentbecause it is the only placethat truley causes suchanxiety between us. I have noidea what to do. Ourapartment is one bedroom andvery tiny. We are not allowedto make structural changes,paint, or even put up border.Worst of all, we have no roomfor our stuff (bikes etc.) andyet still, we have very littlefurniture and most of it wasfree and is falling apart. Ihave been trying to takewhatever money that I canscrounge afterbills,food,tuition to at leastbuy a few candles..but i justhave a feeling that the miseryneeds a bigger solution. Onemight think that we are justyoung and stressed due toother factors..but i know thatit is this place. Finally, wecan't move until we can affordto buy a second car (we arecurrently walking distance towork and classes). Doesanyone have any inexpensiveadvice they can give. I wouldreally appreciate it. I am atmy end with this situation.It is starting to feel reallyhopeless and both my fianceand I are slipping into adepression that is making itharder and harder cope with.I am hoping that feung shuiand st. johns wart will cometogeather and help bring usout of it.truley,ashley Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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