Am I being paranoid?

[myfs_51714]

Hi,
My boyfriend's bed(the headboard) is plastered on the wall. Its mattress is the divan type with rollers. So there's a small gap (2 inches) between the mattress and the headboard. I noticed right above the headboard on the same wall, there's a slight beam protruding out about 6 inches. We are sleeping under it. Not quite directly. About 6 inches away. I told him it's not good. He said not to worry. Maybe I am being paranoid.
I wish to know if sleeping this way is bad feng shui.Kindly advise. Thank you.

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Anon,
In a recent reply to the same or similar question, I personally feel that this is a non-issue since you are normally not sleeping under the portion of the `beam'.
In a situation where there is indeed a beam `pressing' on the body; I feel that this is a real concern.
But, yes, do rest and relax as usually, a portion of the pillow would `occupy' or be below this beam and in fact, more often, the head is further away from this `beam'.
In case of a further paranoal; of feeling that there could be a poison arrow from the beam towards, the bed, in my opinion, this is usually a non issue since the distance of this `beam' is relatively far away and in most instances, aimed 45 degress and usually away from the body. Again this, I felt is a non issue.
Therefore, this round; it is good to `listen' to your boyfriend's advice:)
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 2/20/01 12:39:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi,
My boyfriend's bed(the
headboard) is plastered on the
wall. Its mattress is the
divan type with rollers. So
there's a small gap (2 inches)
between the mattress and the
headboard. I noticed right
above the headboard on the
same wall, there's a slight
beam protruding out about 6
inches. We are sleeping under
it. Not quite directly. About
6 inches away. I told him it's
not good. He said not to
worry. Maybe I am being
paranoid.
I wish to know if sleeping
this way is bad feng
shui.Kindly advise. Thank you.

[myfs_51714]

Thank you very much for your advice, Cecil!!

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On 2/20/01 8:45:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Anon,
In a recent reply to the same
or similar question, I
personally feel that this is a
non-issue since you are
normally not sleeping under
the portion of the `beam'.
In a situation where there is
indeed a beam `pressing' on
the body; I feel that this is
a real concern.
But, yes, do rest and relax as
usually, a portion of the
pillow would `occupy' or be
below this beam and in fact,
more often, the head is
further away from this `beam'.
In case of a further paranoal;
of feeling that there could be
a poison arrow from the beam
towards, the bed, in my
opinion, this is usually a non
issue since the distance of
this `beam' is relatively far
away and in most instances,
aimed 45 degress and usually
away from the body. Again
this, I felt is a non issue.
Therefore, this round; it is
good to `listen' to your
boyfriend's advice:)
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 2/20/01 12:39:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi,
My boyfriend's bed(the
headboard) is plastered on the
wall. Its mattress is the
divan type with rollers. So
there's a small gap (2 inches)
between the mattress and the
headboard. I noticed right
above the headboard on the
same wall, there's a slight
beam protruding out about 6
inches. We are sleeping under
it. Not quite directly. About
6 inches away. I told him it's
not good. He said not to
worry. Maybe I am being
paranoid.
I wish to know if sleeping
this way is bad feng
shui.Kindly advise. Thank you.