Love/Committment

[chrltld]

Hello all. My question regards my love life. My boyfriend of 2 and a half years is scared of marriage. And though he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me, it breaks my heart that he is scared of the committment. His birthday is 3/25/1972, mine is 2/14/1979. Is there anything I can do (objects, placement, etc) to encourage his committment level? My Kua number is 3, and I live alone in an apartment which really limits my furniture placement. Thank you very much for your time.

[chrltld]

sorry, his birthday is 3/25/1971, not 1972

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Christina,
Usually, Feng Shui specialises in the `omens' of the earth. And less of use in Love and Marriage. Unless one believes in sector Feng Shui and hope to have a good relationship i.e. by beautifying or enhancing say the South West sector (Romance). This is to me a flawed concept.
You could either use Chinese astrology or Pillars of Destiny to help improve/understand your relationship.
Overall there are two `modules' and it depends on your level of use of it:-
1. A basic way of understanding one's characteristics say under one's horoscope.
Here, the nature of love is one of the great mysteries of life.
One way you can improve your relationship and love life by understanding one another's personality.
Overall, Chinese astrology under http://www.lovesigns.net considers one's year of birth. Much similiar to the Western horoscope.
You could perhaps, check the `animal' sign to which each of you belong to. And see if it relates to both of you. The idea here is to try to understand each other's `characteristics' based on the individual animal sign.
2. Pillars of Destiny.
The use of Pillars of Destiny depends whether one wants to go further than the use of Chinese astrology.
Here, the key ingredients are:
2.1 Finding out each person's element and strength.
2.2 Try to enhance one's personal element. For example, if a person is a weak wood person, then try to enhance the individual with say `water element' under colours represented by blue, grey or black.
2.2 Binding element - this is of great use in the area of `love and lasting `relationship/marriage'. Here, if say a person is of weak wood and the other partner is of weak water; binding element like water or metal can help the couple grow.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 7/25/2001 8:52:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hello all. My question
regards my love life. My
boyfriend of 2 and a half
years is scared of marriage.
And though he tells me he
loves me and wants to be with
me, it breaks my heart that he
is scared of the committment.
His birthday is 3/25/1972,
mine is 2/14/1979. Is there
anything I can do (objects,
placement, etc) to encourage
his committment level? My Kua
number is 3, and I live alone
in an apartment which really
limits my furniture placement.
Thank you very much for your
time.