Improve on Love Life

[myfs_77979]

I wish to enhance my love / sex life. I hv put in the mandarin ducks in my southwest of my bedroom but no difference. I hv also put a life dragon fish at the entrance of my house to enhance my financial status. I also have a three legged frog facing inwards my front door. Is it right?

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Kamini
1. In my opinion, many of us are led wrongly to believe that our romance sector is at the South-West.
2. In fact, many book authors and those who sell things to enhance that sector are infact the only ones " Laughing to the Bank ".
3. It is certainly sad to see this situation.
4 Let us look at an illustration:-
4.1 Let's say if three of us are young bachelor males working in any office. There is a new lady colleague who has just joined us.
4.2 One of us would place a mandarin duck in the South-West sector. For me, I may have palced 12 roses at South-West sector.
4.3 The third male colleague, who knew of what three of us are doing; try to out bid the two of us: He placed 112 roses at SW and also a pair of mandarin ducks at this sector also.
4.4 So, did the `best man' win? Not quite. Maybe because the three of us were too confident of ourselves and just depended on these objects. It could be that another gentleman, saw her, liked her and started wooing her. In the end, it could be that he was the one who finally married her!
5. In my opinion, just because, each Gua (Kua) has its interpetation of a sector; this is too general to be of any use to everyone as it is not personalised to an individual.
6. Even the `humble' Eight House Theory is personalised to a person as it is based on one's Year of birth.
7. Shapes and Form Feng Shui is also personalised to each house. No two house is the same. Some houses may have poison arrows aimed at the main entrance. Others, may have toilets at the front (inaupicious) etc...
8. Therefore, if one can see some of the samples above, there is always some level of personalisation.
9. So what if `North=Career' sector? Should we than pay homage to the North = Career sector? What happens if 10,000 of us or even 100,000 of us wanted to get a raise in any company. Can all of us simply enhance North = career and expect a raise? Is this logical?
10. In fact, I personally feel that many book authors especially those who say that they apply Traditional Feng Shui - are doing themselves in with sector (rubbish) Feng Shui. These people are I believe known as "vampires" of Feng Shui. Out to suck our bloods (hard earned money) dry. And discrediting themselves.
11. But, like easy money or perceived easy money; there will always be people who are conned day in day out. With some imagination; it is so easy for you and me to write a book about `sector' Feng Shui.
12. You have yourself seen the results i.e. " no difference " after enhancing the so called `Romance sector'.
In my opinion, it does not matter if one place 2 mandarin ducks, place two golden hearts, photos of loved ones... at this sector.
13. The three-legged toad, has its origins or a respectable tale. But many have again used it to pry on our hope for $$$. Imagine, the cost of a wooden sculptured three-legged toad can be as low as $15 but check how much one has to pay for it.
The supersition is that it should be placed inwards from the door facing in. Other than, this, I call this supertitious belief.
14. The dragon fish or arowana fish should also be considered more - of a hobby fish. For those who love or enjoy rearing it. It should not be reared just because of " Feng Shui ".
15. In my opinion, Feng Shui is a holistic approach and involve many different disciplines such as:-
Earth Luck:
Shapes and Form Feng Shui
Eight House
Flying Star
Ba Zi Feng Shui
Heaven Luck:
Pillars of destiny
16. Unfortunately, many people only expect `instant' results like taking instant coffee similar to paying homage to the `sectors' of a house.
17. For those, who do not want the hassle of doing any of the above under Para 15, could perhaps, try to see if they can avail themselves with a competent Feng Shui practitioner to do all these for them.
18. For others, may need to spent time not only to understand each theory but also try to consolidate all theories and apply them to themselves. I am pleased to inform you that there are indeed many users here, who have been listening in to this forum since it started. (Provided you also have the patience to do so.)
19 .Therefore, I like to personally appeal to new users here that if Feng Shui is so each to apply, it would not have taken many (many years) of knowledge plus the crucial aspect of experience.
20. And I have often stressed that if there is a `leak' in the house (due to poor Feng Shui) do fix it first!
For example, simple things like a lone lamp post slicing thru the main door is a threat and must be fixed. If not, no matter how much we try to do the interior of the house, our romance; our finance will always be drained.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 2/2/2002 9:58:00 PM, Anonymous wrote:
I wish to enhance my love /
sex life. I hv put in the
mandarin ducks in my southwest
of my bedroom but no
difference. I hv also put a
life dragon fish at the
entrance of my house to
enhance my financial status.
I also have a three legged
frog facing inwards my front
door. Is it right?