opposite directions for us in 8-house theory

[myfs_79721]

I am new to this fungshui but find it very interesting. Now after some reading, I have the following queries.
1. In the 8 house theory for me and my partner, I find out that our directions are exactly the opposite to each other. E.g. his goods and my bads... so there is no way to find a good house for us both. What should I do now ? Stop reading about fungshui or is there any remedie for this.
2. Our main door is exactly on my "death" area located. (I am a west house person but my main door is located east) I read that you can put some religious object like a cross for a Christian as remedie. But I am not a christian, what other object can I place and where should I place it ?
3. I read that it's no good to have twin-size beds in our bedroom but because of the recline function of the beds, we don't want to get rid of it. Is there any remedie for this ? (Must admit that it's not going very well with our relationship).
Thanks in advance for your help/advice.

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Kitty,
Please see below:-

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On 3/10/2002 9:02:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
I am new to this fungshui but
find it very interesting. Now
after some reading, I have the
following queries.
1. In the 8 house theory for
me and my partner, I find out
that our directions are
exactly the opposite to each
other. E.g. his goods and my
bads... so there is no way to
find a good house for us both.
What should I do now ? Stop
reading about fungshui or is
there any remedie for this.

1. This refers to the Eight House or 4 good & 4 bad directions. Since there are only the East Group or West Group of persons, 50% of the population will have issues that you face.
2. Statistically; 50% of all partners will have one spouse belonging to the East Group and their partner the West Group.
3. Thus, you are not the only person with this situation.
4. If one is choosing a new house one can follow the following guidelines:-
4.1 Where possible, try to find a house that is suitable to the `breadwinner'.
Usually, the definition is that the breadwinner is the `male' of the house e.g. the husband. But what happens if the `female' earns more or provides roughly equal income to the family?
Then, if it is a new house, one should try to buy houses with any of the following combinations at the main entrance door:-
Excellent/Irritation
Prosperity/Irritation
Health/Irritation
Longevity/Irritation
or
Excellent/Spook
Prosperity/Spook
Health/Spook
Longevity/Spook
If one already stayed in an existing house, there is no miracle cure. One has to live with the type of house "chosen ".
But in the master bedroom e.g. at North; if the husband's intangible sector is Health and the wife is disaster; then the husband should sleep closer to the North sector, while the wife sleeps on the opposite site. And use the husband as a shield.

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2. Our main door is exactly on
my "death" area located. (I am
a west house person but my
main door is located east) I
read that you can put some
religious object like a cross
for a Christian as remedie.
But I am not a christian, what
other object can I place and
where should I place it ?

There is no miracle cure for this as mentioned above. In the above situation, it is good to look at the bedroom and the intangible force there. An try to sleep closer to it.
In recent years, it does not seem that even a cross does not really matter here. For personal comfort, one could perhaps, place one there -- just for personal peace of mind - thats all.

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3. I read that it's no good to
have twin-size beds in our
bedroom but because of the
recline function of the beds,
we don't want to get rid of
it. Is there any remedie for
this ? (Must admit that it's
not going very well with our
relationship).

Yes, it is not auspicious for couples to sleep on twin-sized beds. Even if we place a king sized or queen sized bedsheet on it.
It would be best to use a single king or queen sized bed. In addition, avoid any pointed triangle e.g. above the bedroom door designed triangle window. Or any triangle windows that would symbolically `spilt' the couple.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil