My Feng Shui doubts

[myfs_81996]

I am Benz. I am a Singaporean. I was born in 1979, the year of the goat with the Earth as my element and a kua number 3. I tried to apply some feng shui to my own room. I am not the breadwinner of the family but my father is.
My room is located at the east and northeastern side of the house. My room is an L-shaped one and I found a missing corner after I superimposed the bagua on my room floor plan. Sadly, it is the southwestern or the marriage corner of my room. Furthermore, it has become a T-shaped one after I installed a built-in cabinet at the southeastern corner of my room. I wanted to activate my marriage corner very much but I found that building an extension, installing a light or placing mirrors was not practical for me. The door of my room faces west. When I open my door, the space in front of me is my missing corner that I was talking about. A few steps further, there is an exposed beam facing my door of my room and the beam location is at the eastern side of the house.
Question
1) Is there other way to activate my marriage corner rather than building an extension, installing a light or placing mirrors?
2) Is it possible to divide my room into two so that I can superimpose the bagua on each of them? If so, should there be any physical divider? What sorts of divider would you recommend?
3) To eliminate the exposed beam, is it advisable to hang a small paper image of the God of longevity, Sau, since the beam is at the eastern side of the house?
4) My windows are located at the northern side of my room, which is the career corner and also my Tien Yi (doctor from heaven) direction. Sleeping with head pointing the windows is not good Feng Shui. Since my room is small, I have no choice but to sleep with my head pointing the windows. Is it going to affect me? What Feng Shui will I get? Good or bad?
I apologized for taking so much of your precious time. However, I will very much so appreciate you in answering all my doubts about Feng Shui. Thank You.

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Mun Hon,
Please see below:-

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On 5/16/2002 9:40:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
I am Benz. I am a Singaporean.
I was born in 1979, the year
of the goat with the Earth as
my element and a kua number 3.
I tried to apply some feng
shui to my own room. I am not
the breadwinner of the family
but my father is.
My room is located at the east
and northeastern side of the
house. My room is an L-shaped
one and I found a missing
corner after I superimposed
the bagua on my room floor
plan. Sadly, it is the
southwestern or the marriage
corner of my room.
Furthermore, it has become a
T-shaped one after I installed
a built-in cabinet at the
southeastern corner of my
room. I wanted to activate my
marriage corner very much but
I found that building an
extension, installing a light
or placing mirrors was not
practical for me. The door of
my room faces west. When I
open my door, the space in
front of me is my missing
corner that I was talking
about. A few steps further,
there is an exposed beam
facing my door of my room and
the beam location is at the
eastern side of the house.
Question
1) Is there other way to
activate my marriage corner
rather than building an
extension, installing a light
or placing mirrors?

1. Most importantly, sector Feng Shui or paying homage to a sector is not a realistic way to practise Feng Shui.
2. The rationale is because it is too general to be of use for anyone.
Statistically, it makes no sense to relate SW = romance sector.
3. In many of the past examples, I given such an example:-
4. Assuming that SW = romance sector, what happens if three of us are intrested in a new employee?
5. Based on the `romance sector theory' that we often read from some books, it says that we have to enhance it.
6. In my case, I place 1 rose on my SW sector. While, you have heard me doing so and decided to place 99 roses on your work table as well as 99 roses in your home at SW sector. Another of our colleagues, heard of this and outdo the two of us. He placed 999 roses at his SW corner at his home and to outbid you he also placed 199 roses at his office table top.
7. Guess who the girl dated and perhaps got married? One possibility could be:-
" All three of us became complacent. Waiting and hoping for `Feng Shui' to do the `trick'. But it never happended! - Instead, she was being wooed by a nice `boy' who talked to her daily at the bus stand where she takes a bus to work. "
8. I hope you can understand the fallacy of sector Feng Shui or paying homage to SW. Or if SW is missing means that you are doomed in a relationship. This is where, auto suggestion may take place. If one's spirit is down, one may never go and meet someone who may become your potential partner.

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2) Is it possible to divide my
room into two so that I can
superimpose the bagua on each
of them? If so, should there
be any physical divider? What
sorts of divider would you
recommend?

9. Yes, it is possible to divide a room. But one must see how big the rooms are. If the rooms are huge e.g. like the Buckingham Palace or the large rooms e.g. ball rooms, function rooms, one may still divide the room.
10. But if your room is no more than 10 feet by 10 feet or even 20 feet by 10 feet. It does not make sense to do so.
11. The question asked is: What is the purpose of doing so. So that one ends up with more romance sector to enhance.

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3) To eliminate the exposed
beam, is it advisable to hang
a small paper image of the God
of longevity, Sau, since the
beam is at the eastern side of
the house?

12. There is no major problem with an exposed beam if one does not sit below it most of the time.
13. In fact, the effects would be felt only if one say sits under the beam for extended period of times e.g. One and the half hours or more per day per year.
14. If you or your family do not sit below it, as mentioned above, it does not matter.
15. However, to neutralise a beam, one must see what material it is made of.
- If it is made of wood, then, metal element should be used to neutralse this beam.
- If the beam is made of concrete, then wood element is used to neutralise it i.e. two flutes.

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4) My windows are located at
the northern side of my room,
which is the career corner and
also my Tien Yi (doctor from
heaven) direction. Sleeping
with head pointing the windows
is not good Feng Shui. Since
my room is small, I have no
choice but to sleep with my
head pointing the windows. Is
it going to affect me? What
Feng Shui will I get? Good or
bad?

In my opinion, don't listen or believe too much in `sector Feng Shui' i.e. SW = romance, North = career.
Try, if one wants to and in 2 or 4 years more, please return to the forum and give your comments on it.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil