Is there a chance?

[myfs_86962]

Good morning from Bulgaria! I'm really glad to be here, reading the information, hoping to know more in future.
I'm concerned about the following: I was born in the year of the Horse (9 Feb. 1966 at 9.55 am) and I'm in a love relationship with a man born in the year of the Dragon (27 Jun. 1964 at 8:15 pm), and as far as I have read, the Chinese horoscope doesn't give a big chance for such a relationship. Is there a chance to improve something so that this relationship can last? It may seem strange, but despite his indecision and hesitations, he is the man I've been looking for, the man I can laugh, and talk, and even be silent with.
I will appreciate every opinion, which in advance I thank for.
Steffi

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Steffi,
1. Thanks for bring this interesting question.
2. In fact, I had previously posted some information on this issue.
3. In 1986, when I first developed my Chinese Horoscope site:-
http://www.lovesigns.net
4. I was trying to find an appropriate information for the first page of this site.
4.1 I found this quote:-
" If we want to be loved we must disclose ourselves to the other person. If we want to love someone they must permit us to know them. " Dr. Sidney M. Jourard
4.2 When young many of us have either being told or discovered our personal English zodiac signs. E.g. Gemini, Libra, Cancer etc...
And there were (are) untold number of such books describing our characters and compatibiliy.
4.3 This is similar with Chinese Astrology books (by the dozen) that show us e.g. born as a `Rat', `Horse' etc...
4.4 Some of us may pick up a book or read on the website, that e.g. a Rat is a Horse's "enemy" etc...
The DANGER here is auto suggestion. Or should there be a quarrel, we sometimes ponder? Are we in a right relationship?
4.5. Therefore the power of auto suggestion may be detrimental if - we were told that we are " totally " incompatible.
4.6. However, if what our astrology signs says is true or we may perhaps unconsciously act out the part.
We should perhaps, try to understand more of our partner's characteristics and as the above quote says, we can try to understand the `good' or the characteristics of the person we love and by doing so, we can go for the good points instead of pointing out faults.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 10/24/2002 1:37:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Good morning from Bulgaria!
I'm really glad to be here,
reading the information,
hoping to know more in future.
I'm concerned about the
following: I was born in the
year of the Horse (9 Feb. 1966
at 9.55 am) and I'm in a love
relationship with a man born
in the year of the Dragon (27
Jun. 1964 at 8:15 pm), and as
far as I have read, the
Chinese horoscope doesn't give
a big chance for such a
relationship. Is there a
chance to improve something so
that this relationship can
last? It may seem strange, but
despite his indecision and
hesitations, he is the man
I've been looking for, the man
I can laugh, and talk, and
even be silent with.
I will appreciate every
opinion, which in advance I
thank for.
Steffi