opposite directions

[myfs_77438]

Dear Cecil,
My boyfriend and I have completely opposite directions in the eight house. His death direction is my excellence and vice versa. He is a strong earth and I'm a strong water. Does this mean we are incompatible? (since his front door direction is my death and vice versa)
Thank you very much as always,
hoa

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Hoa Luong,
1. Under the Five Elements concept, there is this saying " opposites attract! ".
2. Frankly, is a very common situation if we apply the eight house theory.
3. When u settle down and find a home, best to find a house that suits the main breadwinner (unfortunately under FS, it is still considered the man of the house). For example, a good direction at the main door. For you, it is good if this sector is say the irritation or spook sector.
4. For the bedroom, the partner who has the best influence sleep closer to his/her favourable sector. While the other partner sleeps further away.
5. For newly married couples, it is not advisable to sleep in an irregular shaped room or a bedroom without any windows. (this two are very critical).
6. In addition, for newly married couples, becareful where you place the fish tank (if any). As this can affect marriage.
7. In any relationship, all of us must aware that each partner is like two "strangers" which are dropped into a jungle.
Each stranger has his own upbringing and personal likes/dislikes. And for some man, could also be their mummy's darling.
Simple things like how you squeeze your toothpaste, although start up small can even irritate one's partner. And may eventually lead to a volcanic erruption of sizeable proportions.
Thus communication and give and take is important.
All these can be summed up as part of the building block of MAN LUCK.
Man luck includes, dieting, healthy attitude with each other, communication and others.
8. More of how we cultivate our MAN LUCK can sometimes, neutralise or reduce bad earth influences such as #2 sickness etc....
Wishing you have a good and fruitful relationship which can blossom into a wonderful life, full of health (wealth erh... children ... and money)!
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 1/7/2003 10:35:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Cecil,
My boyfriend and I have
completely opposite directions
in the eight house. His death
direction is my excellence and
vice versa. He is a strong
earth and I'm a strong water.
Does this mean we are
incompatible? (since his front
door direction is my death and
vice versa)
Thank you very much as always,
hoa