Please Help ! Opposite Kua numbers !

[myfs_94127]

Hello !
Thank you very much for your site !
Please help us to decide our problem . My Kua number is 1 ( May 11,1968 ) ? My husband is breadwinner and his Kua number is 2 ( September 21,1962 ).Since we met each other we are having serious financial difficulties :-( Moreover , we don't have our house and for past 5 years we were moving 9 times !!! It seems we can't find our happy place . Please can somebody help us to improve our life , what we can do for it ? We want to sleep in the same bed and to entry the same door . Right now our main ( and the only ) door at S1 and our bed is on N ? all bathrooms on E , our son's bedroom on E ( his Kua is 9 )and kitchen /dining on SW .
We have little picture frame fountain ,big not natural tree , little bronze statue of birds couple and metal wind chimes . Where is better to put it ?We can't afford to buy anything now , so I try to use what we have .For example in our living room our water fountain is on N , little picture of water mill with house and iron cage with our alive parrot on SE ,big tree in bedroom on NW , birds statue in dining room on NW .Little clay statue of happy cats couple in SW of our bedroom .One wind chime ( bird house ) outside in front of our door and two metal wind chimes on our patio on W and NW side . We also have alive rabbits ( female and male in different cages ) on S of our living room .If this all is correct ?
We know our best locations but I don't know if we can enhance for example money sector in my money sector and in my husband's money sector? The same with marriage sectors etc ??
What you can advice for us ?
We also have problems (because of our financial situation ) to invite my Mom to stay with us ( she lives in Ukraine and we live in USA ) .How Feng Shui can help us to do this ? Maybe I can put her portraits in East section of hall or living room ?
I am looking forward to your reply !
Thank you so much !
Sincerely , Lana .

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Lana,
In my opinion, it is best that you dispel with "Feng Shui" for the time being.
Let me elaborate....
If one is currently facing financial problems; the worst senario is to depend on the `type' of Feng Shui that you are practising.
The majority of what you are practising is: the wrong type of Human/Man Luck.
I understand many of us want to feel comfort by placing things in our homes, just because we read that it "might work".
We can draw a parallel to some people who when faced with difficulties "drown" themselves with food.
Placing figurines etc.. does not work!
In fact, if we look at it carefully, all the best human luck is/are Free!
I often mentioned that we do not go into a vicious cycle: "Placing some object" and waiting for money to drop from the sky.
But rather, in light of the adversity, try to be together or `bond' as much as we can.
It does not matter if both Gua (Kua) are not the same. Gua is but only one of the many, many puzzles. Don't because of "Gua thing" and ruin your lives unnecessary.
In fact, it is best that you erase all you read about Gua.
Since, this is another `upset' in your life.
My personal advise is: TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE!
Going forward, it is best that given your current situation and in my opinion, the inadequate knowledge of the three trinity of the Chinese system:
Heaven Luck
Earth Luck
Human (Man) Luck
without proper understanding of all three and how to manage them; my best advise is for you to stop looking at " Feng Shui" all together.
Even in Feng Shui, I have known many who do not have good Earth Luck (Feng Shui) but make the best of their Human Luck (love/sharing)... remember your wedding vows?
Our wedding vows exactly echoes some of the virtues of "Human / Man Luck " for a couple.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 7/27/2003 8:11:10 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hello !
Thank you very much for your
site !
Please help us to decide our
problem . My Kua number is 1 (
May 11,1968 ) ? My husband is
breadwinner and his Kua number
is 2 ( September 21,1962
).Since we met each other we
are having serious financial
difficulties :-( Moreover , we
don't have our house and for
past 5 years we were moving 9
times !!! It seems we can't
find our happy place . Please
can somebody help us to
improve our life , what we can
do for it ? We want to sleep
in the same bed and to entry
the same door . Right now our
main ( and the only ) door at
S1 and our bed is on N ? all
bathrooms on E , our son's
bedroom on E ( his Kua is 9
)and kitchen /dining on SW .
We have little picture frame
fountain ,big not natural tree
, little bronze statue of
birds couple and metal wind
chimes . Where is better to
put it ?We can't afford to buy
anything now , so I try to use
what we have .For example in
our living room our water
fountain is on N , little
picture of water mill with
house and iron cage with our
alive parrot on SE ,big tree
in bedroom on NW , birds
statue in dining room on NW
.Little clay statue of happy
cats couple in SW of our
bedroom .One wind chime ( bird
house ) outside in front of
our door and two metal wind
chimes on our patio on W and
NW side . We also have alive
rabbits ( female and male in
different cages ) on S of our
living room .If this all is
correct ?
We know our best locations but
I don't know if we can enhance
for example money sector in my
money sector and in my
husband's money sector? The
same with marriage sectors etc
??
What you can advice for us ?
We also have problems (because
of our financial situation )
to invite my Mom to stay with
us ( she lives in Ukraine and
we live in USA ) .How Feng
Shui can help us to do this ?
Maybe I can put her portraits
in East section of hall or
living room ?
I am looking forward to your
reply !
Thank you so much !
Sincerely , Lana .