difficult children

[myfs_102808]

I have a 17 year old son who is extremely bossy and beligerent. I am interested in knowing what I can do to help him by way of Feng Shui. His bedroom may be the problem as it is located at the back corner of the house. I do not have anywhere else to move him to. Is there something I can do to change the room to help

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Anon,

To be truly honest, it is better to check on other means, than Feng Shui. As I have often mentioned, that Feng Shui is not a cure all.

The rationale is because, often, we hear that for banks, they would prefer one to use a signature for an account especially if one reaches a certain age. Here, the implication is that when we reach a certain age, we already almost have a fixed style.

Here, our temperment, outlook and even how we relate to our family members have already firmed up over the 17 years. And, it is difficult to directly change it from a Feng Shui point of use. Lest one becomes accused of becoming a Quack Feng Shui practitioner.

Given this understanding, the years of formulating the profile of one's child has already being shaped.

Today, other studies or methods should be looked into. For serious cases, many people have seeked the advice of counsellors or even their priests etc...

Therefore, under the Holy trinity of the Chinese system, although the Heaven luck or ba zi or even palm reading could pick up such traits of your child but all these are just "ideals".

What is more important now is the "Human/man factors". Feng Shui is about Earth luck and often, we should dwell more closer into the man factors - why is one's child behaving like this. (Could he mimic the parent or father?) Often, there are two sides of the coin on this issue: adults vs the child. It is best to go along such lines.

Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 4/21/2004 10:36:09 AM, Anonymous wrote:

I have a 17 year old son who

is extremely bossy and

beligerent. I am interested in

knowing what I can do to help

him by way of Feng Shui. His

bedroom may be the problem as

it is located at the back

corner of the house. I do not

have anywhere else to move him

to. Is there something I can

do to change the room to help