Death in Family. Wedding how?

[myfs_107568]

Hello,

My husband (hb)'s uncle just passed away. This uncle is his father's younger brother.

Before his uncle passed away, my hb and I were already deciding to hold our customary wedding. However, his uncle's departure was too sudden.

Just in case this information is needed, my hb and family (father, mother and sister) are NOT living together with the deceased uncle.


1.) When can we hold our customary wedding?


2.) From a taiwan television programme, a feng shui master mentioned that although the traditional culture is that to hold a customary wedding WITHIN 100 days after the funeral, he advised NOT to do so. This is because holding a wedding WITHIN 100 days after the funeralis harmful to the bridegroom. The master said that in many years of his encounters, many men who married WITHIN the 100 days after the funeral -- die young (before 50 years old).

He advised to hold the customary wedding after 1 year of the funeral.

Do you know if it is possible to hold wedding AFTER 100 days of the funeral, but BEFORE 1 year?

I do not want anything bad to happen to my hb.


3.) Any other information provided much appreciated. Thank you very much for your help. If you need more information, please let me know.

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Fenger,

Actually, in my opinion, it has to do more with the immediate family.

Thus, in your case, since it is your hb's father's uncle, he should not be considered as the immediate family member.

Thus, in my opinion, since the uncle is not an immediate family member, then holding a wedding 100 days later is actually OK. But if it is one's immediate family member than the wedding should be held one year later.

Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 11/9/2004 3:57:44 PM, Anonymous wrote:

Hello, My husband (hb)'s uncle

just passed away. This uncle

is his father's younger

brother. Before his uncle

passed away, my hb and I were

already deciding to hold our

customary wedding. However,

his uncle's departure was too

sudden. Just in case this

information is needed, my hb

and family (father, mother and

sister) are NOT living

together with the deceased

uncle. 1.) When can we hold

our customary wedding? 2.)

From a taiwan television

programme, a feng shui master

mentioned that although the

traditional culture is that to

hold a customary wedding

WITHIN 100 days after the

funeral, he advised NOT to do

so. This is because holding a

wedding WITHIN 100 days after

the funeralis harmful to

the bridegroom. The master

said that in many years of his

encounters, many men who

married WITHIN the 100 days

after the funeral -- die young

(before 50 years old). He

advised to hold the customary

wedding after 1 year of the

funeral. Do you know if it is

possible to hold wedding AFTER

100 days of the funeral, but

BEFORE 1 year? I do not want

anything bad to happen to my

hb. 3.) Any other information

provided much appreciated.

Thank you very much for your

help. If you need more

information, please let me

know.

[myfs_107568]

Hello Cecil & Robert,
Thanks a lot for your detailed response.
We have decided to wait 1 year later.
And in the mean time, we are searching for our house. We have chosen your
service. My husband has sent the house details to you on the 15th Oct.
Have a great day! Thanks! :-)
Sharon
wrote in message news:16876.9016@forum.geomancy.net...

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Dear Fenger,
Actually, in my opinion, it has to do more with the immediate family.
Thus, in your case, since it is your hb's father's uncle, he should not be
considered as the immediate family member.
Thus, in my opinion, since the uncle is not an immediate family member,
then holding a wedding 100 days later is actually OK. But if it is one's
immediate family member than the wedding should be held one year later.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil
On 11/9/2004 3:57:44 PM, Fenger . wrote:
>Hello, My husband (hb)'s uncle
>just passed away. This uncle
>is his father's younger
>brother. Before his uncle
>passed away, my hb and I were
>already deciding to hold our
>customary wedding. However,
>his uncle's departure was too
>sudden. Just in case this
>information is needed, my hb
>and family (father, mother and
>sister) are NOT living
>together with the deceased
>uncle. 1.) When can we hold
>our customary wedding? 2.)
>From a taiwan television
>programme, a feng shui master
>mentioned that although the
>traditional culture is that to
>hold a customary wedding
>WITHIN 100 days after the
>funeral, he advised NOT to do
>so. This is because holding a
>wedding WITHIN 100 days after
>the funeral is harmful to
>the bridegroom. The master
>said that in many years of his
>encounters, many men who
>married WITHIN the 100 days
>after the funeral -- die young
>(before 50 years old). He
>advised to hold the customary
>wedding after 1 year of the
>funeral. Do you know if it is
>possible to hold wedding AFTER
>100 days of the funeral, but
>BEFORE 1 year? I do not want
>anything bad to happen to my
>hb. 3.) Any other information
>provided much appreciated.
>Thank you very much for your
>help. If you need more
>information, please let me
>know.

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