Is ROM date considered as marriage date too ?

[myfs_109588]

Dear Sir,

Can you advise if ROM date is also considered as marriage date ?

Must ROM date be chosen carefully too? I heard that the traditional marriage ceremony's date needs to be chosen carefully, based on both parties' BA ZI. But what about ROM ?

Though I heard that this year is not so good for marriage, how about for ROM ? Is it okay for ROM this year ? I asked because I am planning to ROM this year in March.

Please advise if any difference between ROM date and marriage date.

Thank you.

Regards.

[Robert Lee]

Hi Anon,

Quote

Can you advise if ROM date is also considered as marriage

date ?

Generally,ROM is already considered a marriage date legally. However, most people are usually more concerned with the actual wedding date where all the traditional procedures are followed.

Must ROM date be chosen

carefully too? I heard that

the traditional marriage

ceremony's date needs to be

chosen carefully, based on

both parties' BA ZI. But what

about ROM ?

This portion is really up to individual. Most will just focus on the actual wedding date while there are those who will look out for both date. Frankly, there isn't any harm in finding good dates for whatever events. But more important is the date for the traditional ceremony date that most look out for.

Though I heard that this year

is not so good for marriage,

how about for ROM ? Is it okay

for ROM this year ? I asked

because I am planning to ROM

this year in March.

Please advise if any

difference between ROM date

and marriage date.

Generally, there is really no real good or bad year. All depends on individual. Of course, ideally you want to get married where the year does not clash with the bride or groom's animal sign for example. But in most cases, sometimes it is impractical to just postpone the wedding for couple of years just because of this.

Even in each year, there are good and bad months, as well as good and bad days. Nothing is perfect. So as long as you choose a date which is suitable to both person, without any clashes between the day and the year, then you should be fine

For us, in our wedding date analysis, we do the exact same analysis for ROM or wedding dates.

ie. make sure day and year does not clash.
ie. make sure element of day is suitable
ie. make sure that no major clashes / harms / punishment are present for each person.

So dates that are good can both be used for either ROM or wedding dates.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET- Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 1/18/2005 10:38:48 AM, Anonymous wrote:

Dear Sir,

Can you advise if ROM date is

also considered as marriage

date ?

Must ROM date be chosen

carefully too? I heard that

the traditional marriage

ceremony's date needs to be

chosen carefully, based on

both parties' BA ZI. But what

about ROM ?

Though I heard that this year

is not so good for marriage,

how about for ROM ? Is it okay

for ROM this year ? I asked

because I am planning to ROM

this year in March.

Please advise if any

difference between ROM date

and marriage date.

Thank you.

Regards.

[myfs_109588]

Hi Robert Lee,

Thanks for your reply !

I am glad to hear your detailed explanations and feel a little at ease now.

I have actually booked the solemnization date at ROM on 18th March 2005. And my marriage is an international marriage. My future spouse is a Japanese and I am Singaporean. If I would like to check if this date is suitable for both of us(me & my future spouse), how can I do it through you?

How much do you charge ?

Hope to hear from you soon!

Thanks !

Regards.

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On 1/18/2005 11:23:59 PM, Anonymous wrote:

Hi Anon,

Can you advise if ROM date

is also considered as

marriage
date ?

Generally,ROM is already

considered a marriage date

legally. However, most people

are usually more concerned

with the actual wedding date

where all the traditional

procedures are followed.

Must ROM date be

chosen
carefully too? I

heard that
the traditional

marriage
ceremony's date

needs to be
chosen

carefully, based on
both

parties' BA ZI. But

what
about ROM ?

This portion is really up to

individual. Most will just

focus on the actual wedding

date while there are those who

will look out for both date.

Frankly, there isn't any harm

in finding good dates for

whatever events. But more

important is the date for the

traditional ceremony date that

most look out for.

Though I heard that this

year
is not so good for

marriage,
how about for ROM

? Is it okay
for ROM this

year ? I asked
because I am

planning to ROM
this year

in March.
Please advise if

any
difference between ROM

date
and marriage

date.Generally, there is

really no real good or bad

year. All depends on

individual. Of course, ideally

you want to get married where

the year does not clash with

the bride or groom's animal

sign for example. But in most

cases, sometimes it is

impractical to just postpone

the wedding for couple of

years just because of this.

Even in each year, there are

good and bad months, as well

as good and bad days. Nothing

is perfect. So as long as you

choose a date which is

suitable to both person,

without any clashes between

the day and the year, then you

should be fine

For us, in our wedding date

analysis, we do the exact same

analysis for ROM or wedding

dates.

ie. make sure day and year

does not clash.ie. make sure

element of day is suitableie.

make sure that no major

clashes / harms / punishment

are present for each person.

So dates that are good can

both be used for either ROM or

wedding dates.

Hope that helps.

Warmest RegardsRobert

LeeGEOMANCY.NET- Center

for Applied Feng Shui Research