Weddings - should we go?

[myfs_109146]

Hi,

First of all, I think this is an excellent website. Keep it up.

I've 2 questions to ask you.

My boyfriend and I are both born in the year of Horse (same year). I read in some Fengshui books that although 2 horses are incompatible, it's ok if we are born in different seasons. Is that true? Is it ok for us to get married this year?

Also, I read that we're both not supposed to attend weddings this year otherwise, our luck will change to bad luck. Is that accurate? How do we "protect" ourselves if we absolutely have to go to the weddings?

Thxs.

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

Glad that you enjoyed the website

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My boyfriend and I are both born in the year of Horse (same year). I read in some Fengshui books that although 2 horses are incompatible, it's ok if we are born in different seasons. Is that true? Is it ok for us to get married this year?

Generally, animal signs of the same type means that the two person will be in competition with each other. However, even for two animal sign (ie born in the same year), there are different elements for each person depending on day that you are born.

ie you can have a weak water Horse, and a Strong earth Horse. Depending on what element sign, there will be different level of compatibility. The least compatible match would be the same element sign ie Strong Earth Horse and Strong Earth Horse or Strong Water Horse and Strong Water Horse.

Please use our free ba zi report in our members area or via this link to determine the element of both of you:-

URL: http://www.geomancy.net/reports/free-report/freerpt-element.htm

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Also, I read that we're both not supposed to attend weddings this year otherwise, our luck will change to bad luck. Is that accurate? How do we "protect" ourselves if we absolutely have to go to the weddings?

This if any belong more towards chinese superstition rather than feng shui. I am sure for example if one is a Christan, you will not even be worried about this. Most people are particularly more concerned about funerals rather than weddings.

As I always mentioned, everyone should just try to enhance their own luck by wearing more of their favourable colours (ie weak wood, wear more blue/black/gray colours etc). Or having a career that is more suitable for you based on your element, and get luck from a suitable house. These will improve you luck.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 1/24/2005 5:31:17 AM, Anonymous wrote:



Hi,

First of all, I think this is

an excellent website. Keep it

up.

I've 2 questions to ask you.

My boyfriend and I are both

born in the year of Horse

(same year). I read in some

Fengshui books that although 2

horses are incompatible, it's

ok if we are born in different

seasons. Is that true? Is it

ok for us to get married this

year?

Also, I read that we're both

not supposed to attend

weddings this year otherwise,

our luck will change to bad

luck. Is that accurate? How do

we "protect" ourselves if we

absolutely have to go to the

weddings?

Thxs.

[myfs_109146]

Hi Robert,

My boyfriend is a "Strong Fire" and I'm a "Weak Wood". Since we are both born in the year of a horse (1978) So how compatible are we?

I've recently purchased a Ba Zhi Reading for 4 in your website. However, I was in the middle of printing it when my computer shut down. I didn't havethe chance to save it at all.Can I have access to my report again?

I've read that part about my career as shown below.

Career with Wealth

Element representing a career represented by your personal wealth element.

Description Element representation Total Earned Wealth Earth 3 Unexpected Wealth Earth 5

Explanation Since Earth represents your wealth, this means that a job representing this element would bring you wealth. This is because you will be creating more opportunities with your Wealth Deities. If you have a job with this element, you will likely be able to accumlate wealth.

Analysis
According to your Pillars, you will not completely enjoy this wealth unless you enhance yourself with Water.

This type of Career is not recommended unless you are in constant contact with Water.

Earth Elements Related Career
Building Management, Customer relations, Civil engineering, Clothing, Construction, Customer Relations, Employee Relations, Estate Agency, Farming, Food industry, Games, Pottery, Real Estate, Recruitment, Sports , etc

Based on the explaination, it says that I should take an "Earth" type of job. However, the green portion says that it is not recommended unless I'm in constant contact with water. What does it mean by that? So should I take the "Earth" Type of job? How do I be in constant contact with water? I'm considering a career change in Real Estate. So will I be suitable for it?

Thxs!

Hui Jeng

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On 1/24/2005 6:48:03 AM, Anonymous wrote:

Dear Anon,

Glad that you enjoyed the

website

My boyfriend and I are

both born in the year of Horse

(same year). I read in some

Fengshui books that although 2

horses are incompatible, it's

ok if we are born in different

seasons. Is that true? Is it

ok for us to get married this

year?

Generally, animal signs of the

same type means that the two

person will be in competition

with each other. However, even

for two animal sign (ie born

in the same year), there are

different elements for each

person depending on day that

you are born.

ie you can have a weak water

Horse, and a Strong earth

Horse. Depending on what

element sign, there will be

different level of

compatibility. The least

compatible match would be the

same element sign ie Strong

Earth Horse and Strong Earth

Horse or Strong Water Horse

and Strong Water Horse.

Please use our free ba zi

report in our members area or

via this link to determine the

element of both of you:-

URL:

http://www.geomancy.net/report

s/free-report/freerpt-element.

htm

Also, I read that we're

both not supposed to attend

weddings this year otherwise,

our luck will change to bad

luck. Is that accurate? How do

we "protect" ourselves if we

absolutely have to go to the

weddings?

This if any belong more

towards chinese superstition

rather than feng shui. I am

sure for example if one is a

Christan, you will not even be

worried about this. Most

people are particularly more

concerned about funerals

rather than weddings.

As I always mentioned,

everyone should just try to

enhance their own luck by

wearing more of their

favourable colours (ie weak

wood, wear more

blue/black/gray colours etc).

Or having a career that is

more suitable for you based on

your element, and get luck

from a suitable house. These

will improve you luck.

Warmest RegardsRobert

LeeGEOMANCY.NET - Center for

Applied Feng Shui Research

On 1/24/2005 5:31:17 AM, Anonymous

wrote:

Hi,
First of all,

I think this is
an excellent website.

Keep it
up.
I've 2 questions to

ask you.
My boyfriend and I are

both
born in the year of

Horse
(same year). I read in

some
Fengshui books that although

2
horses are incompatible, it's
ok

if we are born in different
seasons.

Is that true? Is it
ok for us to get

married this
year?
Also, I read

that we're both
not supposed to

attend
weddings this year

otherwise,
our luck will change to

bad
luck. Is that accurate? How

do
we "protect" ourselves if

we
absolutely have to go to

the
weddings?
Thxs.

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

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My boyfriend is a "Strong Fire" and I'm a "Weak Wood". Since we are both born in the year of a horse (1978) So how compatible are we?

This isn't the most compatible element but not the worst either. A better combination would be a Strong Wood and weak Fire. However, with this combination of a Strong Fire and Weak Wood, as long as you have water element as a common binding element, it will help to balance up the compatibility.

Water element means that in terms of colours of bedroom or house for example have more blue/black/gray). Or have a North (water house), or have more water related career (ie IT etc)

I've recently purchased a Ba Zhi Reading for 4 in your website. However, I was in the middle of printing it when my computer shut down. I didn't havethe chance to save it at all.Can I have access to my report again?

I believe I just replied your e-mail as well. You will be able to regenerate the report from our website anytime you wish. Our member area keep all data for easy access anytime you wish even 1 or 5 years down the road.

Based on the explaination, it says that I should take an "Earth" type of job. However, the green portion says that it is not recommended unless I'm in constant contact with water. What does it mean by that? So should I take the "Earth" Type of job? How do I be in constant contact with water? I'm considering a career change in Real Estate. So will I be suitable for it?

Earth element careers are Wealth careers for yourself (weak Wood). However, what it means here is because you are a weak wood, you will not be able to benefit from the Earth element career unless you make your weak wood stronger. That is why you need water element. Water element makes weak wood stronger. So until you have enough water element, you will not be able to control your wealth career. As such not being able to benefit from a wealth career.

Unlike if you are a Strong Wood, then earth element career becomes a very favourable element for you because you can control it. As such such a career isn't recommended for you. It is better that you go for other careers which are more suitable to you.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

[myfs_109146]

Hi Robert,

Just want to clarify something about what u said about the water element.

How do I know what is a water element in terms of job scope? Can I say that any job that's creative or maybe even not stable is considered a water element?

You mentioned that if I want to be in the real estate industry, I must have more water element. So it means I must wear more "water element clothes" like blue, black, grey. Is that correct?

However, if I'm a real estate agent, doesn't it mean that it's consideredan"Earth Element" job with"Water Element"? Because as a real estate agent, I also have to do a lot of advertising, communication with clients etc...

So sorry for asking you so many times. I just want to clarify.

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On 1/26/2005 7:47:48 PM, Anonymous wrote:

Dear Anon,

My boyfriend is a "Strong

Fire" and I'm a "Weak Wood".

Since we are both born in the

year of a horse (1978) So how

compatible are we?

This isn't the most compatible

element but not the worst

either. A better combination

would be a Strong Wood and

weak Fire. However, with

this combination of a Strong

Fire and Weak Wood, as long as

you have water element as a

common binding element, it

will help to balance up the

compatibility.

Water element means that in

terms of colours of bedroom or

house for example have more

blue/black/gray). Or have a

North (water house), or have

more water related career (ie

IT etc)

I've recently purchased a

Ba Zhi Reading for 4 in your

website. However, I was in the

middle of printing it when my

computer shut down. I didn't

havethe chance to save

it at all.Can I have

access to my report again?

I believe I just replied your

e-mail as well. You will be

able to regenerate the report

from our website anytime you

wish. Our member area keep all

data for easy access anytime

you wish even 1 or 5 years

down the road.

Based on the

explaination, it says that I

should take an "Earth" type of

job. However, the green

portion says that it is not

recommended unless I'm in

constant contact with water.

What does it mean by that? So

should I take the "Earth" Type

of job? How do I be in

constant contact with water?

I'm considering a career

change in Real Estate. So will

I be suitable for it?

Earth element careers are

Wealth careers for yourself

(weak Wood). However, what it

means here is because you are

a weak wood, you will not be

able to benefit from the Earth

element career unless you make

your weak wood stronger. That

is why you need water element.

Water element makes weak wood

stronger. So until you have

enough water element, you will

not be able to control your

wealth career. As such not

being able to benefit from a

wealth career.

Unlike if you are a Strong

Wood, then earth element

career becomes a very

favourable element for you

because you can control it. As

such such a career isn't

recommended for you. It is

better that you go for other

careers which are more

suitable to you.

Hope that helps.

Warmest RegardsRobert

LeeGEOMANCY.NET - Center for

Applied Feng Shui Research

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

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How do I know what is a water element in terms of job scope?

Can I say that any job that's creative or maybe even not

stable is considered a water element?

Nowadays it is difficult to classify any particular career, as now a butcher for example also have to take care of sales etc. Thus, multi-skills are involved.

Anyway, to make it easy, Cecil has already classify some careers into the five element relationship:-

Water Career
Advertising, Arts, Brewing, Communications, Computers, Drinks, Healing, Laundry, Literature, Manufacturing, Media, Music, Therapy

It is not exhaustive, but it should serve as a guide.

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You mentioned that if I want to be in the real estate

industry, I must have more water element. So it means I

must wear more "water element clothes" like blue, black,

grey. Is that correct?

Yes, this is because you are a weak Wood. A weak Wood is not able to control Earth element, so in order to control wealth, you need to make your Wood strong. So you need Water and Wood element to help to make your weak Wood strong.

Just wearing colour isn't good enough. You will need to have more than that to make a weak wood stronger. You need to have as many areas in your life with more water element (ie colours, career, house etc).

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However, if I'm a real estate agent, doesn't it mean that it's consideredan"Earth Element" job with"Water Element"? Because as a real estate agent, I also have to do a lot of advertising, communication with clients etc...

As I mentioned, career isn't as straight forward nowadays. Some form of multi-skilling is always involved. But still, real estate agent is generally considered Earth element. Plus, the job scope though have water element isn't enough to make you strong enough.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 1/28/2005 2:16:41 AM, Anonymous wrote:

Hi Robert,

Just want to clarify something

about what u said about the

water element.

How do I know what is a water

element in terms of job scope?

Can I say that any job that's

creative or maybe even not

stable is considered a water

element?

You mentioned that if I want

to be in the real estate

industry, I must have more

water element. So it means I

must wear more "water element

clothes" like blue, black,

grey. Is that correct?

However, if I'm a real estate

agent, doesn't it mean that

it's

consideredan"Earth

Element" job with"Water

Element"? Because as a real

estate agent, I also have to

do a lot of advertising,

communication with clients

etc...

So sorry for asking you so

many times. I just want to

clarify.