Need Relationship Advice.

[myfs_112674]

Hi. I'm a man and not in a relationship. To be honest, they dont come by very often or last very long. I'd like to see what feng shui can do to help me fix this. My home faces east, and my bedroom is the Southwest corner, the romance corner (must be some sort of sick joke). My furniture is wooden, and my room colors are blue and green mixes. My element is Water. I have been lighting pairs of candles every night, btw do these have to be the same color? I sleep with my head pointing east or southeast to encourage yang energies. I also attach a Jade double hope to the left side of my belt and a jade bagua on the right side of my belt. I figured double hope on left to attract yin, and bagua on right to encourage yang. There also may be a problem having to do with the year i was born. 1983, suggesting that i am Yin, a nonmanly quality and undesirable since i dont really enjoy overly controlling yang women. I really dont know what else i could do, but i have only read a few books on feng shui. Please help.

[Robert Lee]

Dear Todd,

Todd Nelson wrote:
Hi. I'm a man and not in a relationship. To be honest, they dont come by very often or last very long. I'd like to see what feng shui can do to help me fix this. My home faces east, and my bedroom is the Southwest corner, the romance corner (must be some sort of sick joke). My furniture is wooden, and my room colors are blue and green mixes. My element is Water. I have been lighting pairs of candles every night, btw do these have to be the same color? I sleep with my head pointing east or southeast to encourage yang energies. I also attach a Jade double hope to the left side of my belt and a jade bagua on the right side of my belt. I figured double hope on left to attract yin, and bagua on right to encourage yang. There also may be a problem having to do with the year i was born. 1983, suggesting that i am Yin, a nonmanly quality and undesirable since i dont really enjoy overly controlling yang women. I really dont know what else i could do, but i have only read a few books on feng shui. Please help.

Regarding romance. Unfortunately, Feng Shui can help to improve luckand opportunities. It is not a miracle cure for all problems. Especially, in terms of relationship, it can do whatever to improve or smoothing the relationship. However, it will ultimately be up to the two person on how much each other are willing make the relationship work. Relationship needs two person's commitment to last. No amount of other factors can make it work.

That is why most of what you have been doing does not help. Feng Shui isn't about putting this item and that item here and there and expect everything to work. You will have to equally put in your own effort in order to make a relationship last.

Feng Shui is all about creating an harmonious environment that everyone will feel comfortable to live in. Once everyone feel comfortable, you are able to rest/work better which in turn mean you enjoy better quality of life. So ultimately, it is just about choosing nice colour scheme, best placement of furnitures etc. It is nothing about cluttering yourself with items such as candles, jade double hope, jade bagua etc.

Rather than wasting time and money on that, you should focused on like probably reading up books on how to be romantic, or just simply showing care for the person you love. I mean going out, doing things that both of you will enjoy etc. Anything that can help to create more opportunities to enhance relationship between the two persons. As mentioned, it takes two person for a relationship to work. Frankly, you will definately get better results from these, then depending on Feng Shui. Feng Shui is not a miracle cure for every problem.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research