Lack of Earth element in Ba Zi

[myfs_112876]

Dear Master Robert,

Thanks so much for the credit given to my husband and me.

1. My husband Ba Zi is seriously lack of Earth element and there is more Earth element in mine. Will this help/benefit him in any manner? If yes, for how long?

2. Despite his Ba Zi chart shows wealth luck since 27yrs old, his financial status is getting from bad to worst especially since I stopped working in 1997(in S'pore)and came back to Malaysia.

3.He is a very stubborn and weak characterman (always bullied by friends and family members but taking full advantage of my kindness and love for him)who doesn't believe in Feng Shui where else i am very much into it.

4. I don't know why i stick to him the past 11 years but i am getting very frustrated and felt like a fool in the marriage. I have sacrificed alot (giving up everything in S'pore, and legally can't work in M'sia) contributed a lot in all aspects to the marriage. I havealways earn more than him till i stopped work in 1997. I have depleted all my savings since 2 years back, constantly asking for financial help from my family in S'pore. Despite all my efforts, no appreciation from him and his family; instead always get the accusing fingers..

5. Iam like a "mud buddha" crossing the river now (with so much health problems and penniless now), but he is so used to the luxury that i have given him all these years. He just simply make no efforts to improve on himself and still waiting for me to solve all his financial problems.

6. Right now we are staying in a SE facing house. Will shift into a NE facing house soon. (will post a seperate message regarding the NE house).

Sorry for such a loing winded message, i am desperately looking for advices.

Thanking you in advance.

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
1. My husband Ba Zi is seriously lack of Earth element and there is more Earth element in mine. Will this help/benefit him in any manner? If yes, for how long?

Nope. The five element present in your own bazi chart cannot be shared. However, if your husband lacks earth, and you are a weak/Strong Earth for example, than yes you will be giving him some strength.

Anonymous wrote:
2. Despite his Ba Zi chart shows wealth luck since 27yrs old, his financial status is getting from bad to worst especially since I stopped working in 1997(in S'pore)and came back to Malaysia.

Ba Zi only shows you your heavenly given luck. If luck in your ba zi does not match your current luck, that means your heaven luck is adversely affected by your Earth Luck (House) or other Human Luck factors as well. This means you need to check your home luck which will probably be the other major reason why you are having issues.

This is why each feng shui tool will help you trouble shoot. Sometimes problems comes from ba zi given luck, most of the time it is from your home and other factors. Only when you know where is the problem, then you can attempt to resolve the situation.

Anonymous wrote:
3.He is a very stubborn and weak characterman (always bullied by friends and family members but taking full advantage of my kindness and love for him)who doesn't believe in Feng Shui where else i am very much into it.

Personal characteristics are considered Human Luck, sometimes even if the person's luck is very good etc, but if a person is too hot tampered, lack determination, lazy etc, such negative characteristics will also mean that that person cannot be able to fully take advantage of his given luck. No one else but himself can help himself.

Anonymous wrote:
4. I don't know why i stick to him the past 11 years but i am getting very frustrated and felt like a fool in the marriage. I have sacrificed alot (giving up everything in S'pore, and legally can't work in M'sia) contributed a lot in all aspects to the marriage. I havealways earn more than him till i stopped work in 1997. I have depleted all my savings since 2 years back, constantly asking for financial help from my family in S'pore. Despite all my efforts, no appreciation from him and his family; instead always get the accusing fingers..

5. Iam like a "mud buddha" crossing the river now (with so much health problems and penniless now), but he is so used to the luxury that i have given him all these years. He just simply make no efforts to improve on himself and still waiting for me to solve all his financial problems.

Sorry for such a loing winded message, i am desperately looking for advices.

Sorry to learn about your situation. No sure what advise to give you here, really. I mean the thing I can see is that if there are lots of existing tensions between the two of you, it would be obvious that there isn't going to be harmony within the house itself.

Harmony is the key in Feng Shui being able to get the maximium amount of luck from your environment. ie if everyone feels good at home, they feel happy, work better. But if you feel bad, distress it will affect everything from work to family relationship. So unless something is worked out between the two of you, really it is going to be hard to enjoy the fruits of your labour.

I mean in terms of feng shui, you can only attempt to fix or correct flaws once you determine what it is.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research