Concerned new learner of Feng Shui

[Millie]

Hello, I am extremely interested in learning about Feng Shui and doing an online course but I am feeling unsure about it as I discover my husband and I need the exact opposites. He is Kan and I am Kun. We rent our house which we both love but is ideally suited to me which concerns me. I am worrying unneccessarily for him or will you be able to teach me remedies (without moving bedrooms or house for that fact) to create a desirable living situation for him. Thank you.

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
Hello, I am extremely interested in learning about Feng Shui and doing an online course but I am feeling unsure about it as I discover my husband and I need the exact opposites. He is Kan and I am Kun. We rent our house which we both love but is ideally suited to me which concerns me. I am worrying unneccessarily for him or will you be able to teach me remedies (without moving bedrooms or house for that fact) to create a desirable living situation for him. Thank you.

Frankly, this is an extremely common situation.

You should be applying the give and take approach in such situation.

1. Firstly, identify who is the breadwinner for the house. Where both earns the same, in terms of feng shui the husband is usually the breadwinner.

2. Breadwinner should have priority for the house to suit him first. ie any of the 4 good directions. If possible, the spouse suitability to the house should avoid death or disaster if possible (if notstill acceptable as long as the bedroom is suitable to her).

3. Since the breadwinner now has a luck from the house, then the breadwinner can take a less suitable master bedroom suitabilty. Give the spouse a better suitable bedroom so that the spouse can get luck from the bedroom. Same thing, if possible the breadwinner should avoid a bedroom falling under death of disaster.

So this way breadwinner get luck from home, while the spouse get luck from the bedroom. This is the way that both person can enjoy the house equally.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research