Further Questions

[BNFTSK]

Thank you for the 2nd appointment, may I check with you further:-

1. Under your Binding Element Analysis, me and and wife (strong earth vs strong metal) Binding Element is WOOD & WATER,

what do you mean by this, can you elaborate, how do I use this to have better relationship with her or how do I use your Chart to have better relationship with my son and daughter etc.

2.May I check on how much wealth my housecan or cannot actually retain.

Thank you very much.

[Robert Lee]

Dear Henry,

TAN SENG KIAT, HENRY wrote:

Thank you for the 2nd appointment, may I check with you further:-

1. Under your Binding Element Analysis, me and and wife (strong earth vs strong metal) Binding Element is WOOD & WATER,

what do you mean by this, can you elaborate, how do I use this to have better relationship with her or how do I use your Chart to have better relationship with my son and daughter etc.

Since you had taken up our paid services, it is best you contact Cecil to clarify your doubts for anything urgent. It takes time for us to clear the various posting in the free advise forum due to many postings and people seeking advise.

Anyway, not sure if your queries were answered:-

Basically, a binding element is the element common to helping both parties improve their luck which also means the element favourable to also improve relationship between two persons.

Strong Earth and Strong Metal = Wood and Water.

Wood helps to control the excess Strong Earth (yourself), while Water helps to exhaust the Strong Metal (your wife). So the best way is by choosing a colour scheme that has Wood (green/brown) or Water (blue/black/gray) in common rooms that both of you share. Having the two colours will improve each of you and thus, help to improve overall relationship by reducing possible friction etc.

This is at least from Feng Shui perspective. Of course, you should not forget that equally important is the two of you must be always willing to give and take. It takes two person to make a relationship work. So feng shui can only help to create an environment that will reduce potential conflicts. The rest depends on both of you.

As for your second question, you will have to check with Cecil since he has does the audit for you.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research