Wedding blues

[myfs_112914]

Hi, i'm getting married next year Feb 17, 2006.

I have sort 1 Master for counting my wedding date for me.

However, i have search websites to see whether my marriage date if auspicious and i found that no matter which website i went to, it state inauspicious date..

arrangement for my wedding has been made and now i'm a little worried.

That day i also "cheong" pig and sheep..but my MIL is pig(born in 1947) also...and my bro sheep (born in 1979).

Require yr advises urgently...

Tks so much

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

Frankly, there are a few ways to determine a good date:-

1. For most people using the Tong Shu helps them to generally find a good date.

2. Others based on the full moon or half moon. Normally, 1st or 15th of the month are generally considered auspicious dates.

3. More personalised analysis by considering the individual ba zi in addition to key tong shu event. Our website uses this method so it is like having a personalised forecast of best dates just for the two person being analysed.

Either way, as long as you it is done properly, tends to be able to find a good date for you. I won't worry too much if you cannot change the date as you can also attempt to compensate your luck by ensuring that you have more favourable elements to boost your individual ba zi.

For example, if you are a weak water person, then having more White/Gold (Metal) element will boost your own luck. Same goes for two person, try to have the element that favour both of you. This will boost up the luck for the two of you. That is why personalising with ba zi can often help you boost up your individual luck. This is more practical then just basing on the typical tong shu. For example, sometimes because your ba zi and day clash, then even if the day is good, because of the clash this day may not be as good as another that does not clash.

So my advise for you is to enhance your individual luck.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research