Having kids!

[myfs_116377]

hi there,

my bday is 2 oct 1982

my boyfriend soon to b husbandis 31 jan 1976

when would b a good time 2 plan 2 have a baby so that they will b born at a time wen they will benifit from the feng shui in the same way we will and so that weall getalong?

wewant 2 children, but not untill 2007/2008, 2009/2010/2011?

i kno u cant predict exactly when the child will b born but could u give me an idea or way 2 work out if the child will b water,earth,metal etc and wat chinese horoscope will be best 4 us and the baby?

thankyou

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Sophie,

This is an interesting question!

Actually, this has nothing to do with Feng Shui. But belong to the "Heaven luck" category or Ba Zi!

Many of the information relates purely to the Chinese rather than applying universal to everyone else.

For example, 2010 or between 14 Feb 2010 to 2 Feb 2011, this is suppose to be the Year of the Tiger. And in the past, many parents gave away a "baby-tiger-girl" child and place the child at the front steps of this convent:-
http://www.lovesigns.net/astrology/amenu/amenu.htm

In local culture, sometimes it ain't bad to have a child born under e.g. the tiger year as often; because of the lower birth-rate, many of such child could get into "better" schools because there are fewer birthrate for that year.

Contrast this to a child having to compete both going into a school: getting a place and competing academically with others for future places in secondary and even high schools.

However, locally, many people still consider the Year of birth as important thus popular birth signs include: the dragon, ok years include the rat, the pig, rabbit etc...

From a Ba zi perspective, when we determine the birth-sign of the child often, it goes down to the DAY of birth. Thus, each day will see a different birth element that covers a ten-day cycle:

Thus, for example: today could be a Metal day. Tomorrow can be the water day etc....

We do get parents who intend to undergo cessarian birth requesting to check which day / and time for the birth of their child(ren).

Warmest Regards,
Cecil

sophie corcoran wrote:

hi there,

my bday is 2 oct 1982

my boyfriend soon to b husbandis 31 jan 1976

when would b a good time 2 plan 2 have a baby so that they will b born at a time wen they will benifit from the feng shui in the same way we will and so that weall getalong?

wewant 2 children, but not untill 2007/2008, 2009/2010/2011?

i kno u cant predict exactly when the child will b born but could u give me an idea or way 2 work out if the child will b water,earth,metal etc and wat chinese horoscope will be best 4 us and the baby?

thankyou

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Sophie,

Further to what I mentioned; besides the ba zi element i.e. Heaven chart of a child, the most important consideration has to be biological!

Usually, doctors would advise women to give birth as early as possible as when we turn 35 years old (unfortunately) some (women) may have difficulty conceiving. And sometimes the older we get the greater the risk of having children.

Above, is just food for thought!

Warmest Regards,
Cecil