SW corner of the house

[myfs_108880]

SW corner of the house represents the Mother and I was advised to make this corner conducive for family activities. Unfortunately, this happens to be the room which is used by our maid. There is also an attached toilet at that corner. I am a strong fire and I find that i am very hot-tempered. I am sure this is affecting my family esp the kids.My husband also likes to do his work in our bedroom till past midnight and this is affecting my energy and rest.

Also, things are not going smoothly for me at work. To make matters worst, there is a pantry with sink, microwave oven and fridge just behind my work cubicle.

What can I do to find remedy for my predicament? Thank you your advice.

Yours sincerely,

tw

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
SW corner of the house represents the Mother and I was advised to make this corner conducive for family activities. Unfortunately, this happens to be the room which is used by our maid. There is also an attached toilet at that corner.

Like you mentioned, even if South-West corner is good, but it is located inappropriately. Thus, no matter how you cannot use that area as your family area.

Anonymous wrote:
I am a strong fire and I find that i am very hot-tempered. I am sure this is affecting my family esp the kids.My husband also likes to do his work in our bedroom till past midnight and this is affecting my energy and rest.

Generally, you have to find ways to control your excess fire. As a Strong fire, Earth, Metal and Wood are generall favourable elements for you. So under feng shui, if you can more areas in your life that is Earth, Metal and Wood, it will help you balance up your excess fire. You can refer to this link for the various five element and relationship:-

URL: http://talk.geomancy.net

As for your husband working in the bedroom, maybe you can just talk to him and see how you can work an acceptable compromise. ie if he needs to work too late, maybe work in the study or living room. If this is bothering you, then you should discuss and try to work out an arrangement that will be acceptable to both parties.

Anonymous wrote:
Also, things are not going smoothly for me at work. To make matters worst, there is a pantry with sink, microwave oven and fridge just behind my work cubicle.

Usually, where it comes to career not smooth etc, sometimes you have to check your ba zi luck in greater detail. There might be a possibility that the career is not favourable for you, or that you lack lots of a certain element so being unbalanced. Usually, when a person is unbalanced, things may not go in his favour.

As for the sitting location. If there is at least a partition blocking you, then it should not be as bad as if you cannot see it directly, it is not a major threat. For office, unfortunately, there is very little one can do especially, if you are not a key person in the company (ie have your own personal room etc). Usually, most work space are shared so very difficult to correct or relocate. So you can only work on other areas such as wearing more favourable colour,or other areas within your control ie your own home etc.

I would say that at this point probably working to balance up your element will help you as well as to try to work out something so that you can get better rest. (If you can get a good rest, it might help make you less hot tempered etc).

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

[myfs_108880]

Thank you very much Master Lee.

tw