Buying new house, changing job & other questions

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Edited by Robert: Since you have so many personal questions, it may be better you seek professional consultation service as not all questions many be easily answered through seeking free advise. As in a free advise, most advise is given based on general information provided.

I haven't yet really got time to read through your entire questions. But because you ask so many questions in a single post it is almost like posting 8 separate questions. So often we do not answer these questions first due to the fact that we could have answered many more simple questions with the same time spent. So if urgent, please get a professional conslutation service.

Dear Masters Cecil & Robert Lee,


Greetings and wishing you both and your families a very very happy and fulfilling New Year with good health, good luck and prosperity forever and ever.

May this wonderful website of yours achieve ever more success!

As usual, would love to have the benefit of your sensible, practical advice regarding the following questions.

1. We are in urgent need to look for a new house by April end. Really have no choice, but is any particular month this year better re: these details:
My sister is kua no. 7 (monkey, West group, strong yang water, born Oct 2, 1956) and I am kua no. 4 (water tiger, East group, weak yang water, born June 3, 1962) - do these elements, etc. have to be taken into account?


2. Am looking for house nos. 5/6 according to house period. On your site, it's mentioned that house nos. 5 & 6 are for period 7 and period 8 respectively; any interchange will bring on problems. Now this is a general rule, or will have to be further fine tuned as per respective birth dates of family members?
From our present 1st floor, am looking for a 4th or 5th floor, to get the house nos. right (e.g. 401, 501 or 402). Anything as to which floors are ideal re: house period, surroundings, etc.?
Also, if I take a house in bldg. facing out onto quiet lane, less traffic, no dead ends, would this be good chi or bad chi? Where on your site can I access some tips re: surroundings, bldg. approaches, etc.


3. Newly constructed houses are hard to come by and very expensive, so we might have to look at resale flats. Am trying to get the house no. right with house period, and some other elements, but layout, fact that other people have lived there, their energies, history, etc. might also affect. I am coming across period 7 houses; some, even older. Might have to take on a period 7 house, but not too old houses or which might need lots of repairs. But in a recent answer, there was mention that the qi would have faded, etc. So would a new coat of paint help re-energise the house? Maybe am wondering too much, but since this will be major monies, am feeling a bit unsettled about the whole thing. Please help with any tips.


4. My sister is main breadwinner, so we were looking for a NE main door (excellent direction) house, West facing house, but we are coming across West main door, odd layouts, toilets in house centre, etc. Trying to find something with atleast general layout, etc. right is proving a nightmare. Was told by a feng shui consultant here in Mumbai that better to just go by the positive vibes one gets from a new house and surroundings, then have an evaluation according to all our birthdates (sister, me & mother)? Whereas you have said only main breadwinner is to be considered (but she is also thinking of taking a break/changing jobs), so what would be ideal?
Also, one should consider gua no. only, or ba zi element directions too?


5. My sister is presently working as a legal executive. But since last year, because of the environment, new bosses, her own outlook, etc. she is beginning to resent the job and wants to change over to some kind of office admin job. Mos favourable & favourable elements for her are wood and earth as per your report. Would office admin jobs be in harmony with these elements? She does not like dealing too much with people, or where one has to talk, be front-stage a lot; likes research oriented work and organising kind of behind-the-scenes work.


6. In our present house, prior to 2004, we had a small lane running across the front of our bldg (N-NW) and extending straight on to other buildings right down the line. There is a bldg. opposite ours, but it did not feel stifling. Since then, our bldg., and all the other bldgs. have built compounds and that seems to have altered things around the place - there is more noise, noisy children, neighbour quarrels, a feeling of being jailed in. And all this seems to be only in the N-NW part. What I do not understand is as to only why we, and maybe some other families seem to feel this so - the other neighbours seem to be fine with the noise and mayhem and whatever, and have even taken us to task because we spoke out against the endless noise.
Personally, our spirits drop the moment we enter the bldg. compound and we cannot relate to the others (House is on 1st floor, facing another bldg., main door NE, house no. 102B)
Now, this is because the feng shui of the bldg. has changed, or it's clashing with our personal feng shui, or just a case of differing temperaments?


7. We have some potted plants in the window grill in E-SE. And they are always attacked by black/red ants, trying to get to the flowers, burrowing in the mud to lay eggs and being a constant nuisance. While I love plants, constantly having to fend off the ants with ant powder and other measures is highly irritating. Now, are the ants bad feng shui or the resulting irritation will lead to it? If so, is this only in the house and does not apply to gardens?

There is also a sort of garden/playground to the E-SE, and only the side near our bldg., is always overgrown with weeds, wild plants, gets littered, has rats, and so on. Is this also bad feng shui?


I know those are many questions. But would be grateful if you would please answer them, so I can avoid some of these things in the new house I am looking for.

Many thanks in advance.