those born in 1953 or 1965

[myfs_133948]

Dear All

Firstly may i thank you for creating this web site. it has been very interesting looking though.

My question

I am a roosteri have been brought up by reclusive rabbits (my parents) and have been surrounded by rabbits/sheeps all my life. I have spent years of my life trying to make a connection with them and always it has ended up to my detriment. the last straw came when they have made life hell for me and my young daughter (single parent) despite the fact that when they despartely needed help i was always there.I have now realisedthat ihave wasted my life as a positive relationshipwas never going to happen as we are directly opposed. I am now isolated with no family or friends. so I am starting again with no money. How do i improve this situation, how do i find people born in the year of the snake as i am told this sign will gel with myself and my daughter who is a dragon.

Many thks

[Cecil Lee]

1. In my opinion, it is at least good to hear that you are "starting" a "new" life.

2. However, whenever possible, I do hope that you do not take too much of the Chinese zodiac signs "too seriously". As I feel that too much reference, digestion of e.g. the characteristics of say a dragon, snake etc.. will make us -to-have auto-suggestion.

3. Frankly, one can never tell that the next "snake" one meets will truly be a "snake!" Maybe there is too much coincidence in your past experience in dealing with people. And broadly, any one of us can fit into easily into any of the 12 Chinese zodiac signs.

4. Even in modern Singapore, many people meet each other, be it couples, business partners.. nowadays, I don't see many approaching a Chinese astrologer to check their "pairing".

5. For example, nowadays, I don't seem to hear anyone's first introduction :" Can I know what "animal (Chinese zodiac) sign are you? "

6. We must be aware of the danger of "auto-suggestion" and "self-fullfilling prophecy! For example, if say I am a "rat" and if I keep on reading all the good and bad points of a "rat"; I may unwittingly act the part of a "rat"!

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I am now isolated with no family or friends. so I am starting again with no money. How do i improve this situation, how do i find people born in the year of the snake as i am told this sign will gel with myself and my daughter who is a dragon.